Welcome to the couch! People of PC Psychotherapy

It's butcher....add cargo shorts spots bra wife beater, F250 anda chain wallet and you might get lesbo of the year!

Couldn't hang here today- spending quality time with the hubby. Lola- I hope you don't wake up in pain tomorrow from your slip and slide incident. I added soap to one before and went head first into a child's swing set. That left a mark! Have a good evening fellow loungers. I must get back to the 'usband!

Pardon me for being ignorant, but what is a "stiffy"? Are you male or female? Or am I totally off on this one?

I am a female , I was referencing the amount of testosterone it takes to work on a oil rig...and stiffy in this case would be erection....sorry, working on my social acceptable filter, but it's way down on the list... lol

Somehow I'm think I'm being teased. I cannot imagine I actually could look that butch, even dressed in everything you said and driving a huge truck.

Even when looking completely femme, I still tend to ping gaydar and I've never understood it.

Maybe THEIR gaydar is broke, or you like to wear comfortable shoes and a ball cap...lol

I mean I ping GAY people's gaydar...usually in person, not on the internet. Either the LGBT population in my area has poor gaydar or I give off a vibe.

That's what I am saying...theirs is broke, obviously needs to be recalibrated and you need to stop wearing comfortable shoes and ball caps...LOL

Maybe it is just on the continuum, you are more toward the middle rather than at one end?

Debbie Downer...,

I emailed my ex T late last night after a few glasses of Merlot , will she call my new T, email him? Omg...I am out of control. The email wasn't too bad, I think. Omg....

Dude, don't drink and email. Would it help to pm someone here instead of emailing her? Go for,a walk, do breathing or guided meditation, have your partner lock up the computer for the night?

Good call.... I don't drink that often , Dude, I was weak... I know. She won't respond and I do feel like I said what I needed to say. But Dude, I need a wing man on the email forefront for shizzal....lol

Whatever the worst thing she can do is issue a restrainting order....but for an email? Harassment......the case isn't near strong enough....lol

Dude, you do on that email stuff. I do not believe nor was I saying you are weak, but she is never going to do or be what you wanted. She is not going to understand or apologize or see the light or explain it to you sufficiently. And yes, emails have been the instigation for restraining orders. It can be considered harrassment. Would it help to email your new one instead and tell him what you want to tell her, or tell one of us? Or all of us? Or stick with rolling rock instead of merlot?

Are you propositioning me ? ( in my sweetest southern gone with wind voice ) Why couselor, we haven't even flirted, yet.

Well, I am not sure I have considered offering to listen to complaints/ musings/rages about ex-therapists as a proposition or as flirting, maybe you all do it differently in texas?

Well we get em close and then we rope em!

ropes kind of creep me out.

No need, how you operate has not relation to how I operate unless we are operating.Therefore if in fact, we are now operating, I say we throw caution to the wind, and let our hair down. Step out of our comfort zone...and we may accidentally but intentionally figure out a way to operate together.

As for the rope , you'd always eat vanilla ice cream, if you never tried chocolate ... Just sayin

Ok.. I going to hug you now, no hips 3 pat , ...both hands. 2 seconds , I had to hug you because that is how I roll my dear. Now that wasn't so bad was it? (patts the couch) here sit by me...

Hmm vanilla is my favorite. French vanilla when I am feeling reckless.

I actually love vanilla bean, it's my favorite....lol

Reckless you say? Do tell?

How come?

So you were feeling especially manly, and you enjoyed that?

(Sorry if "manly" is the wrong word.)

CE exactly. You won't offend me, so don't worry. Manly is fine...lol. Although I don't have a gender issue and I do like being female.

Now I have "i enjoy being a girl" from Flower Drum Song going through my head.

Umm - Bye Bye Birdie?