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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:26 PM
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We make maple syrup where I work. It is way too easy for me to access. Soooo tasty.
You have seen Super Troopers, yes?

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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:31 PM
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ugh Murray...that's a tough one. My dad and his friends used that tactic with me, and it is so ingrained that I consistently watch for it in real life. The most helpful thing for me has been a short list of people that I trust to tell me the truth. I carry it in my purse, this is exactly what it says:

If I am not sure whether something is real, or I am being told that I imagining things, I can trust the following people to always tell me the truth. They care about me a great deal and would never hurt me. It is ok to listen to them and do what they tell me to do.
1) H - phone number
2) Daughter - phone number
3) G - phone number
Yup. You have have at least a few people that you can trust.
I started on this whole therapy thing because I trusted my wife.
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:34 PM
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Most definitely there is a gain for making me doubt myself.
Doubt, in small doses, is not at all a bad thing. Some of the things that you most believe in may be damaging or just plain wrong.

"The path to wisdom begins with doubt." - Me
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:37 PM
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Hey couch..

T cancelled.. booooo!!!
((Healed))
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:38 PM
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Starting a thread is scary.
You risk:
1. Being ignored
2. Being criticised
That is true in both starting and in participating in threads. There are times that being overlooked upsets me, but in both posting in, and starting threads I try to take the risk. It's a way to get a little bit of me out there.

I'm trying to catch up on the rest of the tread, after a longer day at work then expected. I hope everyone is having a nice Friday!
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:41 PM
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Whew! Been straightening out my clothes; figuring out what fits, what doesn't, what needs to be put away for the winter, taking the winter stuff out, filling up a Goodwill bag.

I've gained 5 pounds in the last 2 months (about 8 pounds since last year) and it shows. About half of my clothes from last year do not fit. Has me rather bummed. Oh well.
... laying out my winter clothes and wishing I was gone ...
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:45 PM
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I'm not exactly depressed, but I've got a difficult week coming up and I don't know if I'm strong enough to handle it. Doom, disaster, defeat...
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((Can't Explain)) I some really crappy stuff coming up next week as well. Maybe we can pocket ride for each other?
If it's okay, I will join both of you. A birthday of someone very close to me is coming up this week. He died about two and a half years ago. It probably shouldn't be having such an effect on my right now, but I am still struggling.

I hope we are all strong enough to handle what is ahead of us.
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:45 PM
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That is true in both starting and in participating in threads. There are times that being overlooked upsets me, but in both posting in, and starting threads I try to take the risk. It's a way to get a little bit of me out there.
Speaking for myself, this is worse as a thread-starter than as a participant.

I try to rationalise in two ways:
1. I am rather different from the average poster (whoever that may be!) and maybe people just don't understand.
2. I express myself with such brilliant clarity that there really is nothing else to add. Unless people disagree, which I generally take as criticism.

The reponse I most want is:

FANTASY DIALOG

That is so true! You write with such power, such insight, such eloquence. I want you to be the father of my next baby!
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:47 PM
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Yup. You have have at least a few people that you can trust.
I started on this whole therapy thing because I trusted my wife.
I don't really have anyone I can trust, and that is one of the reasons I started t. It's great that you are able to trust your wife.
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:50 PM
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I washed dishes! the air conditioner men are coming monday. this is a b1tch and a half with one eye, but at least my order of elastic finally came in, and I made a new strap for one of my stupid eyepatches, and it isn't brain-crunchingly tight so it IS tolerable. cuz it was driving me half-mad. just getting on my nerves without realizing what was wrong.
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:52 PM
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The lack of activity on the couch this Friday evening has me thinking I am a loser without a life.. I hope everyone is having fun!!
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(((Jersey))) Healed...then I must be a loser too.
Doesn't this count as self deprecation? Oh well - I'm at home as well.
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:53 PM
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Hankster - what happened to your eye? Are you turning to pirates after cowboys and ranchers?
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:53 PM
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I washed dishes! the air conditioner men are coming monday. this is a b1tch and a half with one eye, but at least my order of elastic finally came in, and I made a new strap for one of my stupid eyepatches, and it isn't brain-crunchingly tight so it IS tolerable. cuz it was driving me half-mad. just getting on my nerves without realizing what was wrong.
Post pictures!
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:54 PM
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The reponse I most want is:

FANTASY DIALOG

That is so true! You write with such power, such insight, such eloquence. I want you to be the father of my next baby!
Well, I generally comprehend what you are saying and you do usually have clarity.

Is that close enough?
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:55 PM
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Doesn't this count as self deprecation? Oh well - I'm at home as well.
Not sure how to take this?
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:58 PM
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Yup I'm spending a Friday eve on the couch as well.
Think I may pick up my knitting again.
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 06:59 PM
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Not sure how to take this?
Well, I just don't think you (or myself) is a loser without a life! It's okay to spend a Friday at home. Sorry if my comments came across in a negative way.
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 07:02 PM
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I've been away for a while, but I'm here for a minute and wanted to say hi to all. I'm sorry people are having hard times in T and in life. **** sucks.

In particular to Granite: Lots of hugs. As an active duty military myself, I find politicians to be particularly frustrating. I always keep your son in my thoughts.
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 07:02 PM
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Well, I just don't think you (or myself) is a loser without a life! It's okay to spend a Friday at home. Sorry if my comments came across in a negative way.
I really was being sarcastic. I don't mean to imply that anyone else here is a loser. Sorry.
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 07:03 PM
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Hi Lucy!
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 07:04 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((trdle)))))))))))))))))))))))))))
(I didn't want you to feel ignored)

Can't Explain: You write with such power, such insight, such eloquence.
(will that work?)

Healed...I think trdle just didn't want you calling yourself names. After all, it is a couch rule that we can't insult ourselves.

murray...Friday night on the couch rox.
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 07:08 PM
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Hi Healed!

Everyone's changed their avatar since I was here last. You guys are looking good!
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 07:09 PM
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Can't Explain: You write with such power, such insight, such eloquence.
(will that work?)
Ah! That's so good!

I've been looking back and I found this genuine unsolicited customer testimony:

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Oh my goodness, so much truth in so few words. Clarity, precision. CE you really are doing well. maybe one day I will stand where you are.
That was SittingAtWatersEdge. May she grow and prosper!
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 07:10 PM
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Well, I generally comprehend what you are saying and you do usually have clarity.

Is that close enough?
Coming from you, that is high praise indeed!
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 07:12 PM
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Hey Lucy!!! Missed you around here!
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