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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:20 PM
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I'm not sure. Kind of afraid right now because I think he's angry with me and I worry that calling him might make it worse.
Did he give you a reason to think he would be mad, or is this just how you imagine it? Does he typically respond to email? Dude just call...no need in messing up your whole weekend thinking about it.... You want me to call?

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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:22 PM
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AND??? SO??? How does it harm you that someone else's food discussion triggered some interest and for whatever reason, your food thing didn't? HOW DOES THAT HARM YOU IN ANY WAY???
You think it doesn't hurt to be ignored?
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:24 PM
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Thank Goodness this couch is about over..... it reeks of curry, apologies and misunderstanding...... The Couch!  #21

Sorry for contributing the curry....
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:25 PM
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MKAC, it harms me because I have always wanted to belong. It hurts my HEART and makes me remember childhood and other times I was left out and ignored. It hurts me deep inside. Deep. Not your problem or anyone else's. I know. I am going away from this thread too.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:27 PM
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You think it doesn't hurt to be ignored?
Thanks, but this thread isn't for a discussion of feeling ignored. It just isn't. You can PM me if you want to.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:27 PM
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You think it doesn't hurt to be ignored?
CE .... read the whole thing first... yes we all know it hurts to be ignored, but its also a fact of life that one cannot be the center of attention at all times, especially in a group setting such as the couch....

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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:28 PM
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Did he give you a reason to think he would be mad, or is this just how you imagine it? Does he typically respond to email? Dude just call...no need in messing up your whole weekend thinking about it.... You want me to call?
but lols you got a new pic of chopin for your mantle on this couch
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:30 PM
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Did he give you a reason to think he would be mad, or is this just how you imagine it? Does he typically respond to email? Dude just call...no need in messing up your whole weekend thinking about it.... You want me to call?
yes please Lola....you calling would definitely be better

He sometimes responds but not too often. usually when I am not doing well he will respond. This time though...I don't know. It might be me but I am afraid that if he is angry with me that calling will just make it worse.

MKAC please don't leave the thread. I'm sorry I mentioned that I struggle with conflict.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:30 PM
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but lols you got a new pic of chopin for your mantle on this couch
not exactly the pic I was looking for....
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:31 PM
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It´s snowing in my country..HMM...A bit to soon IMO...Yeaahh I can write about snow and stir away from whatever is going on in here right now...though tempted:headbang.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:32 PM
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yes please Lola....you calling would definitely be better

He sometimes responds but not too often. usually when I am not doing well he will respond. This time though...I don't know. It might be me but I am afraid that if he is angry with me that calling will just make it worse.

MKAC please don't leave the thread. I'm sorry I mentioned that I struggle with conflict.
Murray ....call Its the only way to end this agony and enjoy your weekend, he is a professional... I am sure he will handle this in that manner or pm me his name and number whatever...LOL
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:34 PM
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Okay Lola maybe kumbaya is in order
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:34 PM
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I go away for a half-hour and all hell breaks loose? Well, that'll teach me, won't it?

Seriously, truthfully, really...I don't dislike anyone on this couch. Everyone has their right to their opinion. Anyone can come and go. So right now, I'm kinda like, "WTF"?
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:34 PM
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You think it doesn't hurt to be ignored?
There's a difference between feeling ignored and having a fit that I'm not getting the number of responses that I want to get.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:34 PM
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omg i got my generator out and ready bottled water etc... waiting for frankinstorm
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:36 PM
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So right now, I'm kinda like, "WTF"?
I know right?

So.... Who is all in the path of the storm? I'm gonna need you all to "thank" this post if you are in danger.... then Im gonna need you to buddy up and run down your ready check lists.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:38 PM
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Hey, I missed a really obvious joke.....I wanted indian food - but there's "nan" for me...Bahahaha.

Hey granite - You have a generator? That's what I should have considered getting when I had money. LOL. For times like these when we may have to anticipate extended power outages. I'm hoping it's not going to be as bad as they predict.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:39 PM
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omg i got my generator out and ready bottled water etc... waiting for frankinstorm
Ok I'm heading to Granites. She's got teh generator and water. LOL


I'm trying to figure out what I need. Since my ex-to-be went away I can't seem to find things like flashlights, batteries and all that sort of stuff. Think his parents have it all, along with all my tools. ANyway.... guess I will be making a list and shopping.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:41 PM
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Funny my T had always said she isnt sure about the BPD diagnoses .wonder what she would say nowlol
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:41 PM
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I know right?

So.... Who is all in the path of the storm? I'm gonna need you all to "thank" this post if you are in danger.... then Im gonna need you to buddy up and run down your ready check lists.
Dang, that's what I forgot - a checklist!

Umm, I have ONE flashlight and batteries. Bread. Peanut Butter. Snacks. A case of bottled water. Candles. Matches.

Running out of cat food and rabbit food though...oh and haven't done laundry in a while, so I'm running low on clean underwear. Yikes! I've got some work to do!

Oh, and I still have to get the lawnmower to a safe place...we flood easily here...but I don't have a safe place for it. *sigh* Umm....and somehow get everything off my deck.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:41 PM
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[QUOTE=mixedup_emotions;2669575]Hey, I missed a really obvious joke.....I wanted indian food - but there's "nan" for me...Bahahaha.[/QUOTE

Ok I needed that. Thx. I have nan at home yummm
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:41 PM
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Yall be safe, half the couch lives on the East Coast...ugggg
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:42 PM
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Running out of cat food and rabbit food though...oh and haven't done laundry in a while, so I'm running low on clean underwear. .
My biggest concerns would be , clean panties and not feeding the food....
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:43 PM
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Hey, I missed a really obvious joke.....I wanted indian food - but there's "nan" for me...Bahahaha.

Hey granite - You have a generator? That's what I should have considered getting when I had money. LOL. For times like these when we may have to anticipate extended power outages. I'm hoping it's not going to be as bad as they predict.
same here they are trying to say it may be worse then last october.
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Old Oct 26, 2012, 03:43 PM
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We need a new couch..... who is the lucky sucker?
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