The Couch! #21

Because we are all in Therapy and we like it here and I really wish you would quit suggesting it be moved.... besides the name of the thread would lose its double meaning anywhere else.

MKAC hows the fight going with your daughter???

Sorry MKAC....when it rains it pours....can you still get the paper? Was the Korean food at least good?

So Lola, T's nails?

i read this and it is a concern of mine also i would never want to see this moved it does have a lot of T in it LOL like my T has no nails as far i t could see when i tried to look at her hands

I'm sorry, MKAC. When I don't understand something, I get that way. I don't want to ruin it. I just want to BELONG and I don't. That's the bottom line. It hurts to be ignored, even when I write about Chinese food or my day or something like that.

I hope you get that document you're missing. It's frustrating. I do care.

Can someone please tell me to stop compulsively checking my email for a response from my T that is obviously not going to come???? UGH
It's like I get stuck in some infinite loop and can't break out, where I check and check and check.....I swear I drive myself nuts!!!

Okay. I'm sorry. I won't mention it again. I promise.

So I'll be the show-off. I have a new professional pic (not taken professionally, but for our website at work).

I promise not to get mad if it goes unseen!

STOP LOOKING talk to us murry.when do you see T next? will T bring up E-mail then

I'm sorry. I apologise for posting the wrong thing. You are right, of course, and I am not understanding the point of the couch or of PC.

THANK YOU!!!!

Still on-going. Trying to give the vice principal some time to look into it because he really is a good guy and cares, and I don't want to do an end-run around him if he can fix it. Thank you for asking.

I will have to make another trip. But, yeah, the Korean food was awesome and I have kim-chee for meals in the next few days. I make rice and just have rice and kim-chee wrapped in seaweed. How many Wiki-points is that, do you think? We need Wikid to check back in and tell us.

Why? Why don't you understand? People want to chat and hang out. WHY would it hurt to ignored when all you're talking about is Chinese food? Do you freak out on facebook if people don't respond when you just check in that you're eating someplace? I don't understand SO MUCH of what you post, but I don't come and try to get your posts moved to the borderline forum.

Thank for the expression of concern. Not sure what to else to say to that.

You okay Apt? I'm not sure why you are apologizing. I personally love having you as a fellow couchster.

it looks so adorable.i see a new and more appropriate pic for lolas mantle

Can you call?

WHY ARE YOU APOLOGIZING, APT??? You didn't do anything wrong! [I wasn't really yelling. Maybe raising my voice a bit in frustration.]

Thanks, everyone...

(((( granite )))) - Honestly, I don't think I ever would have known that you were borderline if you didn't mention it.

Lola - I'm triggered by hippies too. Bahahaha. Kidding. No worries with you, Lola.

I'm not sure I'm triggered by all borderlines....perhaps just the unhealthy, more aggressive ones. It reminds me too much of the friendship that I had with a borderline which I had to find the courage to end after feeling so trapped for so long....which resulted in a lot of lashing out at her end - by her and her family - and her attempting to run me over with a truck 7 months after I ended the friendship.

Anything that reminds me of her gets my blood boiling....which is quite unfair to other borderlines because they are not all like my former friend.

Working towards reacting differently could be a goal. But based on where I am right now in my journey, I'd imagine that my limited energy needs to be directed to something of higher priority.

I'm deciding not to decide right now. I gotta try to get some rest before my all nighter tonight.....

Oh, and I love my couch peeps too....

MKAC, because others post about food and it goes on for pages.

Apt, you didn't do ANYTHING wrong. It's my big mouth, or rather, fingers. I was thinking/wondering. It had NOTHING whatever to do with you. I'm sorry if I gave you that impression.

Thanks Granite. If the storm cooperates I see T on Tuesday.
Not sure if he will bring up the email..... I keep trying to write something and then deleting it. Sorry, everything is so confusing to me right now.

Dag nabbit, now I'm in the mood for indian food.....

But NO indian food for me! I gotta try to sleeeeeep....Why is it that when we NEED to sleep, we can't?? ACK!

OK..... did I miss something.....

I'm not sure. Kind of afraid right now because I think he's angry with me and I worry that calling him might make it worse.

AND??? SO??? How does it harm you that someone else's food discussion triggered some interest and for whatever reason, your food thing didn't? HOW DOES THAT HARM YOU IN ANY WAY???

Sorry couchsters. I know some folks hate conflict. I'll take a break for a while. See you guys later.

Thank Goodness this couch is about over..... it reeks of curry, apologies and misunderstanding......