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Old Feb 16, 2013, 10:54 PM
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Spock is superior to everyone
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 10:59 PM
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my picture I painted

Ok so Im no Picasso!
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 11:00 PM
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Even Sybok? "Share your pain" always makes me think of psychotherapy. He is definitely a lesser Vulcan, IMO.
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 11:00 PM
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my picture I painted

Ok so Im no Picasso!
Did you have a good time? And I am not huge on picasso.
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 11:02 PM
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my picture I painted

Ok so Im no Picasso!
That's pretty cool LC. i like it, but the dogs playing poker is my idea of classic art.
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 11:06 PM
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I like photographs.
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 11:21 PM
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my picture I painted

Ok so Im no Picasso!
No, you are more of an impressionist! It's very lovely.
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 11:21 PM
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I like photographs.
Ha! So you are my hubby!!
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 11:23 PM
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It was very fun I highly recommend it to everyone. Met a bunch of nice people and a few really cute little old ladies. I wanted to take one home.
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 11:33 PM
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Well, I initially was crabby because it was snowing and I could not ride my horse. Then, found out that someone I love, who swore they were not going to drink anymore, is going to an activity that involves alcohol. Also, I spent a LOT of time drafting what I thought was a really thoughtful message to someone, trying hard to be helpful because this is a problem that has come up for this person over and over. So I spent a lot of time thinking about and drafting this message. I got a reply back just saying that they didn't agree and they want what they want from this other person, without any regard for what the other person thinks or wants, although they also admit that this is a problem that comes up REPEATEDLY. So, that kind of attitude that completely disregards the other person's feelings, and what the person is willing to give, really upsets me. I should not let it, but it does. It's not that person I was writing the message to disagreed with me that was upsetting. It was the attitude of 'I am entitled to what I want regardless of how it affects others.' Sorry for being so crabby.

Im sorry that your friends are causing you grief. I hate it when my friends don't do things I want them to. People know you care and that's all you can do, we were all given free will and damn it, we all use it for good and evil. Hope your mood picks up!
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 11:35 PM
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I Met a bunch of nice people and a few really cute little old ladies. I wanted to take one home.
We are not pets.
(but I have always thought a giant human hamster ball would be cool)
(and I do like the idea of getting small snacks just for existing) (I refuse to sit and stay for one)
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Old Feb 16, 2013, 11:40 PM
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We are not pets.
NO, Im talking OLD.... Like 80, free coffee and senior discounts...AARP!
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 12:03 AM
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healed how was your date? Murray what did you do tonight? SD, Man I miss you when your gone!
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 12:09 AM
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ok Ill turn the lights out, as the couch appears to be closed!
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 12:40 AM
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*Pops head out of hole and looks around*

Damn, it's dark in here. Who turned off the lights?

Oh well, I'm usually a day late and a dollar short.
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 12:42 AM
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Dude, I'm awake! (turns lights on)... they take a minute to warm up.
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 12:58 AM
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 01:02 AM
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thank goodness..... we need lotsa people on the couch.... is anyone else here?
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 01:06 AM
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So healed ,you are going to see T twice a week?
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 01:10 AM
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Yes, although.. I really am starting to think it is going to be pointless. Right now I am scheduled twice a week through the end of the month. So, basically 4 appointments in the next two weeks. I my last session T ended kind of abruptly and way it was way shorten most of ous sessions. I get the feeling that he doesn't think we are going anywhere until I start taking control and making decesion in my life.. Stop worrying about what other people around me think, etc.
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 01:16 AM
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Healed, go to T and let the marriage ride.... work on YOU.
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 01:21 AM
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Well, I initially was crabby because it was snowing and I could not ride my horse. Then, found out that someone I love, who swore they were not going to drink anymore, is going to an activity that involves alcohol. Also, I spent a LOT of time drafting what I thought was a really thoughtful message to someone, trying hard to be helpful because this is a problem that has come up for this person over and over. So I spent a lot of time thinking about and drafting this message. I got a reply back just saying that they didn't agree and they want what they want from this other person, without any regard for what the other person thinks or wants, although they also admit that this is a problem that comes up REPEATEDLY. So, that kind of attitude that completely disregards the other person's feelings, and what the person is willing to give, really upsets me. I should not let it, but it does. It's not that person I was writing the message to disagreed with me that was upsetting. It was the attitude of 'I am entitled to what I want regardless of how it affects others.' Sorry for being so crabby.
That's the type of situation where my T would tell me to walk away, for my own sanity. I bet yours would too. Remember, your first priority is to take care of yourself.
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 01:21 AM
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Oh, but I have been meaning to share.. T aplogized to me.. He said, well you called this week. I said yes, I was feeling very low and you have encouraged me to call when that happens. He said, very warmly.. I am sorry, I know I tell you to call when you need me and I haven't been good at returning your calls. Keep calling me. I thought that was nice!
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 01:24 AM
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Old Feb 17, 2013, 01:28 AM
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