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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:35 AM
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Sconnie: did you tell her TWO weeks? She wasn't rejecting you, she was giving you options. Stupid t's, don't they know options frighten us?

I still have the creeps about those peeps in my house.
I said two weeks was fine. I am not sure what she is doing. I feel like there is some sneaky t tactic being used right now...

Sorry about the people in your house. Did laundering the bedding help?
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:39 AM
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Yea, exactly granite. It's just what he does, everyone knows it. We groan, sometime we yell at him. He even does it in front of his wife and she slaps him. Irritating, but whatever.

She is making it a BIG deal. All about her, and how she feels offended. Gawd. And she's going on and on about "Maybe I just put out that vibe" GRRRRRR. STFU. Why it pisses me off so much is just crazy. She gets under my skin when she makes a big deal about things. I just know she's going to cause trouble. She keeps saying this guy in her old church came on to her and she had to leave because everyone hated her. Such a narcissistic thing. All about her, everyone looks at her, everything is about her.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:41 AM
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Lola - I hope all is okay with your dog. I would be scared if my cats had seizures.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:41 AM
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She's 84 and wrinkly. Walks with a can.
I'm sorry for laughing, because it would drive me crazy too, but the misspelling gave me this funny mental picture of a little old lady with a spittoon.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:43 AM
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Lola...good.

Sconnie...not really. I am still freaked. Trying not to obsessively clean AGAIN. My H has already yelled at me because I think I can still smell them. I am just a nut-job.

It's probably not a t-tactic, just a weird T screw up thing. They screw up all the time.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:46 AM
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oh...not a spittoon can, a toilet can. he he he...she carries her own can with her wherever she goes, just in case the depends don't work. ha ha ha ha.

And SD says "ACK". (even if you don't write it, I know you thought it)
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:47 AM
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wiki are you having to be with her today wiki?
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:49 AM
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I am just a nut-job.
No, you are not a nut-job.

Sconnie...it might be a T thing, might not. But they are human and make mistakes.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:50 AM
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Yes. She is coming over. Grrrr.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:52 AM
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LC-hope your dog is okay. We had a dog once who had seizures. It always looked awful, but did not seem to bother him much.

Chopin- this new position seems to really stress you out.

Wikid - not even a thought of it. So there.

Granite- those are crazy structures.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:52 AM
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Wiki...sorry she's coming over. Does she put her can on the can when she can?

Hey granite! Long time no see.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:54 AM
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Wiki has the mother from hell
whom she was unable to sell
Lola asked for a mother
Wiki replied "Oh brother!
If you can only put up with the smell."
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:55 AM
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Yes. She is coming over. Grrrr.
what is her need today. can you turf her over to your husband and kids.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:56 AM
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SD...I'm wondering if its related to my last time in management when my ex-boss, who abused me, set me up to fail. I failed spectacularly, she told me I'd never manage again.

That woman reminded me so much of my mother. I can't seem to let their messages go. More grist for the T mill.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:58 AM
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I am alone, no H no kids. Just the dogs.

She "needs" to help me pack. "Oh dear, I just feel so useless and unwanted. I think I should help you pack because you do so much for me" grrrr.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 08:59 AM
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I better get up and get ready for work. A consultant just asked me to move our meeting to 11. I didn't mind, but now I need to get my butt in gear.

Have a good day everybody.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 09:01 AM
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oops i posted this on the other couch but oh well

i do not like the mothers air
i do not like her here or there
i do not like her anywhere
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 09:03 AM
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I am alone, no H no kids. Just the dogs.

She "needs" to help me pack. "Oh dear, I just feel so useless and unwanted. I think I should help you pack because you do so much for me" grrrr.
grrrrrr feed her to the dogs if they wont put there noses up at her
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 09:07 AM
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She will go on and on....

"oh you poor thing, when do you think your hair will come back?"
"I can't believe you go out in public like that, but you were never one to worry about appearance"
"I suppose the pink dye made the hair fall out quicker"
"they say cancer is caused by unforgiveness and bitterness"
"I suppose H will still love you, though men need certain things you know"
"I can see why the kids aren't here, it being this depressing and all"
"Maybe you should just go into some kind of hospital and give your family a break"

...............

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Old Feb 26, 2013, 09:09 AM
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"poor H, he worked so hard for this house, and now you've used up all his money"
(I kid you not.)
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 09:11 AM
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Wikid- you do not have to let her come over. You can change your mind. You can just say no. You don't have to deal with her today if you do not want to do so. You can have that power.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 09:13 AM
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wiki WOW how cruel she is . she sounds like a carbon copy of my grandmother . i so wish you were ablw to just tell her to shut the F up or get out but i know it isnt in you.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 09:14 AM
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i totaly agree with what stop says if you can tell her to just stay home .
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 09:19 AM
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It's kind of one of those things where if I don't just get it over with she will pester me for weeks and then tell everyone I am mad at her. It's easier to suck it up for a few hours and then have the rest of the week free from manipulation.
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Old Feb 26, 2013, 09:21 AM
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still sucks
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