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I would say, "Tell me what my trouble is again?" "Tell me who I am again, so I will know next time I come to therapy?" That would NOT go over well with me. I may not know all of who I am, but there is no way that someone else is going to convince me that I am some way or the other (again). Take this seriously, and tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him this is NOT who you are, and if he can't see you any other way, then he needs to get a consult. Tell him that you need a therapist, not a psychic. Tell him that his crystal ball just won't cut it for you. ![]() ![]() Keep us posted.
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![]() Anyway, I'm sorry it's hard sawe. It sounds like you already think there is some truth to what your t is saying. ![]() I liked what Rainbow wrote- you could say "it hurt me when you said what you did. Maybe it's true but I'm not ready to hear it". I wouldn't have thought of that. On the other hand, I think I'm too open to letting t's talk me into negative things about myself sometimes. I agree with Rainbow that they shouldn't be saying it if the client isn't ready to hear it, which is maybe almost the same thing as if "it" is wrong. The client is ultimately the only one who can decide if it's right or wrong, so if they're saying it when the client is going to feel it's wrong, it might as well be wrong. And if "it" is going to make the client feel s/he doesn't have dignity, that can't be right/correct either. Hmm, I think I've just convinced myself that at least something about what ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Last edited by learning1; Feb 27, 2013 at 12:04 AM. |
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Last edited by sittingatwatersedge; Feb 27, 2013 at 07:45 AM. |
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