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Old Mar 17, 2013, 01:41 PM
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ok I screwed up and should have went with her...now I have to clean to make amends... uggg
Why do you think cleaning is making amends? Are you trying to compromise? To be honest, your W seems rather needy to me; just paying attention to things you've said about her.
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 01:49 PM
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Thought that some might appreciate this one:

Couch 43 ... 1 year !! Thanks for the memories
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 01:58 PM
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I cleaned 1/2 the house now for the other half.... I thought cleaning may help because I hate it and she wans it done today. She said she cant start her week with the house being dirty.

Also i think she is too needy too but then I wonder if Im to selfish.
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:09 PM
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I thought things would be easier if you were in a relationship with another woman but I'm seeing that does not always hold true...

so maybe instead of trading a hetero relationship for a lesbian one.. I should just get myself some "sister" wives... that way I could meet my needs for female companionship, friendship, etc.. and they could take care of wively obligations for H.
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:11 PM
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I have thought about that RTS.. I am too jelous of a person to have sister wives.. I would probably end up running them all off, lol!!
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:11 PM
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oh and depression can kiss my ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:20 PM
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I'm still into the idea of the couch commune...
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:22 PM
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Yes, me too!
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:24 PM
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Me three and I asked if she wanted sister wives, she said no... Lol
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:28 PM
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Sometimes I think I would be easier if my H just got himself a "friend with benefits" ....
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:29 PM
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I thought things would be easier if you were in a relationship with another woman but I'm seeing that does not always hold true...

so maybe instead of trading a hetero relationship for a lesbian one.. I should just get myself some "sister" wives... that way I could meet my needs for female companionship, friendship, etc.. and they could take care of wively obligations for H.
As someone who has been in hetero and lesbian relationships, the lesbian relationship was much more fraught with drama on a day-to-day basis.
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:30 PM
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I need more wives so I can do less housework and have more ladies to wine and dine, with no nagging!
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I'm on Pandora... and they are playing Fleetwood Mac on the Pat Benetar station... I want angry women... not Fleetwood Mac
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:30 PM
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I don't want to bring the mood down but I'm really feeling that the time is coming to go to hospital. I don't know what else to do
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:32 PM
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I need more wives so I can do less housework and have more ladies to wine and dine, with no nagging!
how about hiring a weekly cleaning service (sounds cheaper and with less drama)...
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:34 PM
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Nelliecat... I'm sorry you are feeling so low... please do whatever you need to keep yourself safe.
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:41 PM
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I agree Nellie, you can talk to us we are here.
I have had a maid on a few occasions but wife says its not worth the money when we can do it ourselves. Im gonna get a mistress in every port instead!
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:45 PM
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I'm at work...switched to Madonna station so now I'm dancing to Prince...... I just want your extra time and your kiss...
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:45 PM
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I agree Nellie, you can talk to us we are here.
I have had a maid on a few occasions but wife says its not worth the money when we can do it ourselves. Im gonna get a mistress in every port instead!
Maybe with your new job W might be more agreeable to maid service. That way when you are home will be able to relax.

As far as mistress in every port....not so sure about that idea. Sounds like a recipe for lots of drama to me.

And Nellie we are here please be safe.
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:50 PM
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"Yeah, you made me feel all shiny and new"
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 02:51 PM
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Maybe with your new job W might be more agreeable to maid service. That way when you are home will be able to relax.

As far as mistress in every port....not so sure about that idea. Sounds like a recipe for lots of drama to me.

And Nellie we are here please be safe.
Yeah ... I agree on the maid thing.... And the mistress thing, if I really start to feel that way Ill get single and then a hot maid and gf in every port!

Thanks for keeping me on the straight an narrow Murray! You sign up to babysit me next week yet?
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 03:06 PM
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Lola...will there be others from your company traveling together next week? or you solo?

Just thinking about you not liking to eat alone in restaurants...what is your plan for that? you can't eat junk in your room every night
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 03:09 PM
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Ill go grocery shopping and Ill have a kitchen in my hotel. Probably go out with co workers once ... Too much drinking when people get together!
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 03:11 PM
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Yeah ... I agree on the maid thing.... And the mistress thing, if I really start to feel that way Ill get single and then a hot maid and gf in every port!

Thanks for keeping me on the straight an narrow Murray! You sign up to babysit me next week yet?
Anytime

Although I'm liking the idea of a hot maid...

Stupid computer keeps freezing on me whenever I try to post a reply today. Not sure what's up with that.

Also headache and general body achiness ugh. Anybody know if that is likely due to tapering of paxil or not?
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Old Mar 17, 2013, 03:17 PM
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Lola...I'm glad you will have a kitchen... make sure you buy yourself some oatmeal

Murray...no experience with paxil withdrawl... sorry you feeling yucky... I hate caffeine withdrawls...so I'm sticking to my Mt Dew regimine.
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