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Old May 28, 2013, 07:57 PM
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Calling all dog people... my dog has diarrhea again. We thought it was caused by the dog being on an antibiotic but she hasn't been recently and now it has come back. This is really getting old. We have a very open floor plan but my H decided the best way to keep her in the kitchen was to block it off with chairs and furniture and she got through and made a mess in two rooms... I can not clean it up unless I want to add my own mess...the smell is too much. So my son and i went and rented an industrial carpet cleaner and it is all waiting for my H to do when he gets home. I'm up in my bedroom....

This is really really getting old. couldn't we just keep the dog on human versions of chicken and rice if that's what it takes to keep away the diarrhea? The vet wants to do an xray because even though she's been on antibiotics for a UTI (2 sessions) there is still alot of junk in her urine... now we have this again... We haven't changed her food or anything. We've been fighting this on and off again for 3 months.
I don't know about dogs but when our cat got kidney disease she got really bad diarrhea, poor thing was so embarrassed and distressed if she couldn't make it to the kitty litter in time.

Has your vet done a blood test for kidney disease? would explain the UTIs.

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Old May 28, 2013, 07:57 PM
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Wikid - sorry if my OCD post was the one that bothered you. My sister has an official diagnosis. I only have traits. Since it's so closely linked with anxiety it's hard to tell what's what. I tend to check and recheck things and I'm obsessed with safety. However, I can generally force myself to stop rechecking once I realize what I am doing. It does not have a huge impact upon my life, thus I don't carry the diagnosis. I should have added a disclaimer to my post.
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Old May 28, 2013, 08:02 PM
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I should really be doing homework or working out. However, I am thinking about going straight to bed. Most of my session today was about "the relationship". I feel positive about the session, but all of that mush is absolutely EXHAUSTING to me. I could fall asleep sitting up in this chair. But I want to wear my smaller jeans again. And my goal was to get ahead on my homework for the week. What to do?? SIgh.
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Old May 28, 2013, 08:07 PM
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Well...I filled the new scripts from pdoc (with hesitation). Sent T am email about my feelings about the dose increase, have to see what she can add to the mix. Started my dose increase tonight, as pdoc instructed. Trying to tell myself not to worry about the increase and that if 25mg 2x a day helped, then increasing will probably help a little more. I still have mixed feelings about it though. I had the same feelings after my last appointment though when he added the Lamictal to my med cocktail. They eventually went away, so I'm hoping they do again.

Well, I hope everyone had a good day. I get to work with C tomorrow...he's a cool kid.
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Old May 28, 2013, 08:17 PM
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Pbutton - HELZ no! You didn't trigger me at all, you just made me open up. I was referring to how it's become a trendy term. I had no doubt you meant the real thing. Sorry if I came across bad...I didn't mean to.

Ready - you can purchase really good food for her ... Like Fromm...or just make it. I would add digestive enzymes to it. Also canned pumpkin (not pumpkin pie filling). I also wouldn't do the X-rays at her age. Not unless you are ready to pay for surgery and treatment. I think prepping yourself and family for the end is inevitable too. I am so sorry, it's so hard when their bowels go. They do sell dog diapers as well.
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Old May 28, 2013, 09:11 PM
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I should really be doing homework or working out. However, I am thinking about going straight to bed. Most of my session today was about "the relationship". I feel positive about the session, but all of that mush is absolutely EXHAUSTING to me. I could fall asleep sitting up in this chair. But I want to wear my smaller jeans again. And my goal was to get ahead on my homework for the week. What to do?? SIgh.
Or I could sit here, listen to music and cry until the cat pukes all over the new carpet. My plans for the remainder of the evening have been decided. Pardon me while I go drag out the Bissell.
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Old May 28, 2013, 09:50 PM
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I am all worked up at the woman trying to blame me now for the one thing she had initially admitted doing wrong. Now, she said was not really distracted by her dog and I just thought she was when it whined, paced and poked her, she interrupted me to talk to it and get it treats, and kept explaining the dog to me.
Yes, me not wanting the dog there is me being odd.
I am drinking but not emailing.
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Old May 28, 2013, 09:52 PM
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OMG, SD. I would be SO angry. Did you share your feelings with T?
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Old May 28, 2013, 09:54 PM
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I am fighting the urge to email T to tell him I'm discontinuing group. I know he will see it as running away - but at the moment, I just want to tell him to GO F K HIMSELF. I am trying not to be reactive, but it's taking every ounce of strength that I have to hold back....

Edited to add: Too late. I hit the send button.
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Old May 28, 2013, 09:54 PM
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I told her I did not accept her revisionist history and then she told me she was not going to argue about something that happened two years ago and that she could not remember specifics. I have notes from that day. I know what happened.
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Old May 28, 2013, 09:58 PM
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AARGH. I want to slap your T (and mine).

You would think it would be good modeling to take ownership. And even if not, at least concede to the possibility of a "wrong" existing.
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Old May 28, 2013, 10:04 PM
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Slapping T's ? Now we are talking .
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Old May 28, 2013, 10:07 PM
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Slapping T's ? Now we are talking .
LOL. I'm in that kind of mood.
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Old May 28, 2013, 10:08 PM
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I told her I did not accept her revisionist history and then she told me she was not going to argue about something that happened two years ago and that she could not remember specifics. I have notes from that day. I know what happened.
What is wrong with her? If she is in denial about the dog, what else is she in denial about? Or that could be her wily way of getting you to ask that question and then she would throw it back on you. Do I get a cookie?

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Old May 28, 2013, 10:19 PM
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Once Ex-T told me that it was "only 18 steps from my doorway to the exit". I'm not a counter, but I always meant to count that to see if he was right or not. I never remembered to do so though. I figure he probably knows a LOT of people who WOULD know the number of steps. But still.
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Old May 28, 2013, 10:25 PM
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Things feel so unsettled for me right now...T today was okay, I guess.

Started shaking uncontrollably again a little while ago. Getting so tired of the renewed anxiety, sleeplessness and disturbing "flashbacks"

I'm not sure how to even wrap my head around certain things in life. Maybe I should put a trigger warning here before I say anything else... :trigger:
How can it ever make any sense when a child is terminally ill? I don't know what to do with any of it....the pain, confusion, anger, fear, sadness.....just too much. And he is now starting to understand that he isn't like the other kids, that something is wrong and he's a little bit scared, but he doesn't really know the truth.... Now I'm blubbering again...
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Old May 28, 2013, 10:31 PM
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Murray - sorry to hear.
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Old May 28, 2013, 10:33 PM
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I told her I did not accept her revisionist history and then she told me she was not going to argue about something that happened two years ago and that she could not remember specifics. I have notes from that day. I know what happened.
Similar situation between me and Madame T. I kept notes, she didn't. But to her credit, her memory was phenomenally good. I never caught her out in a false memory.

Mr T takes notes. I find that validating. What I say is worth writing down.

History or no history, you have a right to object to the dog.
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Old May 28, 2013, 10:35 PM
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What is wrong with her? If she is in denial about the dog, what else is she in denial about? Or that could be her wily way of getting you to ask that question and then she would throw it back on you. Do I get a cookie?
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Old May 28, 2013, 10:37 PM
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I don't understand why a T would have a dog in their room in the first place, it seems to show selfishness on their part, what if clients were allergic or scared of dogs, plus the distraction factor. Therapy is supposed to be about the client, you can't be mindful and giving your whole attention to a client when a dog has their nose in your crotch...
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Similar situation between me and Madame T. I kept notes, she didn't. But to her credit, her memory was phenomenally good. I never caught her out in a false memory.

Mr T takes notes. I find that validating. What I say is worth writing down.

History or no history, you have a right to object to the dog.
What I object to is the woman characterizing the situation as me "thinking" she was distracted rather than her admitting she was distracted, particularly when she did admit it at the time of the incident AND that her distraction or even the dog was not actually what I was trying to talk about today - I was trying to get to something else concerning the incident.

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Old May 28, 2013, 10:40 PM
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Things feel so unsettled for me right now...T today was okay, I guess.

Started shaking uncontrollably again a little while ago. Getting so tired of the renewed anxiety, sleeplessness and disturbing "flashbacks"

I'm not sure how to even wrap my head around certain things in life. Maybe I should put a trigger warning here before I say anything else... :trigger:
How can it ever make any sense when a child is terminally ill? I don't know what to do with any of it....the pain, confusion, anger, fear, sadness.....just too much. And he is now starting to understand that he isn't like the other kids, that something is wrong and he's a little bit scared, but he doesn't really know the truth.... Now I'm blubbering again...
Oh, Murray, I am so sorry. That is absolutely heart wrenching. If you need a lending ear, please PM me. (((( HUGS ))))
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Old May 28, 2013, 10:42 PM
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What I object to is the woman characterizing the situation as me "thinking" she was distracted rather than her admitting she was distracted, particularly when she did admit it at the time of the incident AND that her distraction or even the dog was not actually what I was trying to talk about.
And that is a valid objection, for sure. I don't recall my T ever admitting fault for anything. Like, instead of owning up to allowing his frustration to affect my therapy, he'd say, "I had to change my strategy because you weren't receptive to it" or some nonsense.
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Old May 28, 2013, 10:45 PM
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I don't understand why a T would have a dog in their room in the first place, it seems to show selfishness on their part, what if clients were allergic or scared of dogs, plus the distraction factor. Therapy is supposed to be about the client, you can't be mindful and giving your whole attention to a client when a dog has their nose in your crotch...
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Yeah...my T is wonderful about most things, but he really doesn't ever seem to accept fault in anything.
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