I would like my t to say.....

Please feel free to finish the sentence. It can be funny, ott, true or even total fantasy.
Here is my sentence; I would like my t to say I am gonna bust a cap in your *** if you don't give up those bad thoughts that keep you from living your life

...I think about you between appointments and wonder how you're doing.
...I will miss you while we're off.
...I wish I could take you home and look after you.
...I would be proud if you were my daughter.

I change my mind, My t is not a bad t. She has said three out of those four things so she is a good t
I hope some day your t is able to say those things to you tiny

Aww! I'm glad your T said those things. Mine has said a lot of other lovely things including "You can't see why I would cherish you as a client..." and "I would feel robbed if you weren't around." The things he says are often better than the things I imagine wanting him to say.

That is such a lovely thing your t said tiny we are very lucky to have such kind ts and often it's easy to forget all the good things and focus on the bad.

I agree with Tinyrabbit, I wish she would say the first 2 items she listed. Plus - I care about you, I think you are a good person.

i will not freak at anything you have to tell me. and i will believe you. i am not one of those bad people .i really am not. over and over again

This made me tear just reading it

I'm sorry. I want to help you heal this rift because I care about you.

And...

Yes, I did hit my head really hard a few weeks ago. I haven't quite been myself!

For months I wanted my T to say that she would never give up on me and then she did.

...I look forward to our sessions.
...I am really concerned about you and want to help.
...You're going to be ok - I'm not gonna leave you like this.
...I like you as a person.

... __________ are the reasons I think you are a good person (and I would actually believe him instead of deny every point).
... you are not a bother (and I believe him)

the thing is, he's said both of those, but the key is my confidence that he is genuine when he says it... I just don't allow myself to take it at face value, I think "he's just saying that to be nice (or professional, or because he has to)"

and that secret little voice in the back of my head wishes he would give me permission to disappear without being obligated to do anything to stop me... but that's just a little voice right now calling from somewhere in the distance...

and maybe I wish he would say "I believe you at face value, and I truly understand what you are trying so hard not to say"...

I know its been a long, long two years... But guess what! I am finally coming home to stay!! I am getting on the plane tomorrow and coming back!!! Family emergency is OVER!!! ( i would cry so hard with relief)

My t already says everything else i need to hear. But that is the one thing i am waiting on.

I wish old t would say

... i miss you
... i wish this hadn't happened to you
... I want you back

I want new t to say:
... go back to old t

...I look forward to our sessions.
...I'd want to be your friend if I wasn't your therapist.
...I think of you between sessions because you're important to me.

xT: I still think the world of you and that will never change.

T: You didn't disappear, I have kept you in my thoughts. I will be back and look forward to our next session. I wish you would email me already! I would love to hear how you are doing.

... I was wrong and I'll make it up to you.

You hit on everything for me Freewilled. I might add:

...I care about you
...You mean more to me than you think

Come be my daughter and live with me.

I really like this one. I think this would mean the most to me...as in, you're such a great person that I would choose to be around you in a personal way and not just a professional manner. I wonder if my T would want to be my friend....

I will stay back.

Here is the explanation about how this works. I am not just messing with you.

I'm going with my old answer:

Great abs! Is that an 8-pack??

Someday!

"here's a step by step approach to dealing with this situation."

This is what I'd want to hear too.

I so so so want my T to say that instead of muddling my way through things then going back discussing it, muddling through things making the same mistakes AGAIN, going back discussing it.....ad nauseum