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Old Jun 16, 2013, 06:05 PM
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my T very rarely responds to e-mail at all.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 06:07 PM
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If he is going to respond within a couple of days... Most of the time he doesn't respond, and he let me know that that might be the case, so it is a nice surprise when a couple days after my last e-mail I found a response from him in my inbox.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 08:34 PM
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My T has always responded within a few hours.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 08:49 PM
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My t doesn't do emails.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 09:12 PM
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My T usually responds within a few hours or so if it has to do with scheduling or a session. I usually email her some of my thoughts and journal stuff and she doesn't respond unless she worries about my safety. Rule of thumb also is only during the business day M-F. Again, unless she's concerned for my safety.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 09:16 PM
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it is understood that emails to my T are just for discussion at the next session. He has no access in between office hours, and he is limited in office hours. If it's an emergency, or urgent, I need to call his office and leave a message for his supervisor...
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 10:06 PM
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Never soon enough for me it seems! But usually a few hours or the next day.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 10:53 PM
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My T doesn't do emails, and boy, am I glad! I'm sure I'd have a couple dozen sitting in my draft box, obsessing constantly over whether I should send them or not. I've already got enough to drive me crazy!
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 11:19 PM
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My T doesn't do emails, and boy, am I glad! I'm sure I'd have a couple dozen sitting in my draft box, obsessing constantly over whether I should send them or not. I've already got enough to drive me crazy!
Haha...I DO!! I have several right now. It usually takes me several tries/drafts before I'll send it.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 11:37 PM
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Usually my T will respond the next morning ( I email later in the evening after my session). Her responses are brief....two or three sentences. I like that she responds....feels validating.
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Old Jun 18, 2013, 10:59 AM
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It varies. I always call and leave a message for T when I have emailed him since he doesn't check it. I know once I got a reply just a few hours later because I was in a crisis at the time and he asked for my phone number; he works at the government health services building one day a week or he may have just taken the day off. I know he wanted to hear from me that I wasn't a risk to myself and that we could could book an emergency appointment the next day so that it would stay that way. I don't generally email though, unless I can't say it in session. That's rare for me though. More likely when there are a couple of week between sessions, but even then I talk to his receptionist to be added to the waiting list for cancelled sessions.
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Old Jun 18, 2013, 02:47 PM
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Never. He doesn't have an email or a cell phone! Really old-school... Oh yes, lucky me.. Seriously, I think I prefer it this way; I'm sure I could easily turn into a mail-stalker!
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Old Jun 18, 2013, 02:53 PM
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You said that she recently moved away? Could this be something to do with it? She is busy settling in and finding her way round the new area. Maybe she has a lot of business to sort out with the move.
Moving is one of the most stressful things a person will ever do.
From what you say your t seems to have been consistent in her replies, the frequency and content, I think your t is just a little busy right now, she does care or she wouldn't answer at all. Can you try see it that t is busy, she still cares as much but she has a lot going on right now?

Or you could just ask her next time you see her? Btw, I have to pay for emails so that is only reason my t always responds
Thanks for this Mona. I am trying to give T the benefit of the doubt and not get all paranoid. I will wait and see what happens with future emails and try and be patient.
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