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Old Aug 11, 2013, 05:23 PM
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Mue, before I started with my T, I was going to another T at another practice who had a boss T that sounds a lot like yours. And weather it is or isn't, I have to say that I always found the environment less than comfortable. I only met this boss T once or twice in passing but it used to give me shivers when he walked by. However, so did the T I was seeing! lol. Older guy-Grandfather type. Had a Texas accent. He loved butterflies. Lots of butterflies in his office.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 05:32 PM
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Mue, before I started with my T, I was going to another T at another practice who had a boss T that sounds a lot like yours. And weather it is or isn't, I have to say that I always found the environment less than comfortable. I only met this boss T once or twice in passing but it used to give me shivers when he walked by. However, so did the T I was seeing! lol. Older guy-Grandfather type. Had a Texas accent. He loved butterflies. Lots of butterflies in his office.
((( Jersey ))) Nice to see you on the couch!

I hear ya. Since my T is the only T I've had for individual therapy, I have no understanding of what might be considered "typical discomfort". But I have found that I am more comfortable with other T's....then again, I'm not "doing therapy" with them.

My T is definitely one that other T's are uncomfortable around. I noticed that a long time ago....just never thought much about it until our last rupture.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 05:46 PM
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Even though I skipped Church, I did join the land of the living in my house and gave my dog a bath, ate dinner with the family. Wasn't feeling up to going grocery shopping, getting dressed is too much. So, H went for me. I HAVE to go into school tomorrow as well as go to mc tomorrow, so hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 05:49 PM
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MUE, When I as going to that one practice, My T at the time, although he was not the boss T, did not seem to be supportive of other staff. For example, there was a nutritionist employed there and then the T was helping me deal with my then eating issues, I asked him for information about the nutritionist in the office and all he did was bash the costs. " No, Jersey, she will rob you. She charges too much. You'd be better off going elsewhere"
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:04 PM
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Made it home and paid my first bill out of my own account, Im exhausted! But im a big girl now, officially.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:09 PM
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Hi Lola.. Glad you are home safe and sound. I hope you enjoy your own space and have a good work week. Does W have anymore plans to come to visit soon?
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:19 PM
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Yup she will be back Friday night, I'm sure this game will get old quick.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:24 PM
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Maybe it will be a good visit
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:28 PM
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ARGH! Trying to enrol in a subject online. I get throught the whole process, 4 pages, then click confirm enrolment and get a message saying its too late to enrol for this subject online I have to contact the student centre. Blah blah blah.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:38 PM
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Hello fellow couchies. Settling in with a bottle of Black Bush. The Irish know how to make good whiskey. Slainte.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:46 PM
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LC - do you want her to come or not? If not, tell her not to come this next weekend.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:51 PM
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Glad you made it home safely LC. And I agree with SD, unless of course that's none of my beeswax, in which case, carry on.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:51 PM
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:52 PM
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:54 PM
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Hi Granite glad you're back.

Lola I understand how hard it is but if you don't want her there and want to have clean break just tell her "no" I wish i had just said "no" instead of ****ing about with my ex.

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Old Aug 11, 2013, 06:55 PM
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Anyway I've things to do see you in a couple of hours. Hi Ike and everyone else i have missed,
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 07:07 PM
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Hi Granite!
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 07:08 PM
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Jersey....My T wasn't supportive of me reaching out to other T's at his office while he was on vacation for a month but promotes the other types of services that are offered at his facility. Of course, it IS his facility, so I can't imagine him bashing anyone considering he makes part of his living off of them being there.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 07:09 PM
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Thanks y'all.... I have a few days to think about it. I see Country T on Tuesday.

Hi Granite, I have missed you (((Granite))))
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 07:11 PM
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I decided to tell my friend that I wasn't feeling up to hanging out tonight due to this migraine. She said she was tired too, so we'll just plan on getting together for coffee sometime this week.

I'm relieved at the moment that I'm off from work for the night and don't have to be at an assignment until noon tomorrow. With how I'm feeling, this is one of the benefits of this kind of work - I don't have to take on more than I can handle.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 07:12 PM
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 07:15 PM
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Nothing to be sorry for, Granite. Just be you.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 07:17 PM
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Have I told you all that T is moving his practice.. Just down the road, to a bigger newer building. I am not someone who is attatched to T's office or anything. The one thing that I worry about as the time gets closer.. That his office is going to be too medical office feeling and not homey feeling like I am used to. Where his office is located right now, it is a building of professional offices. The new one is in a medical complex with all kinds of doctors offices, urgent cares, radiologist, etc..
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 07:22 PM
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Okay guys, time for me to duck out. See you all again soon. Hugs.
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Old Aug 11, 2013, 07:27 PM
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Hope the transition is OK for you Healed. Hi Jersey, good to see you.

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