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Aug 23, 2006, 11:55 PM
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Been trying to absorb the news all day today. I had T this morning at 11 am. He wont be there from a week from this coming Friday til the middle of October hopefully. He's been having health issues with his pancreas over the summer and when they were doing tests they found a growth on his pancreas. They dont think its cancerous .. they are hopeful its not, but its still growing some . I want to be positive about this cause he is so young. My age in fact. And has a young child and two HS aged kids. I had some choices to either swich T's altogether, or to switch temporarily, or go without ( I will still see my case manager weekly ) So I will still have contact with someone. I am scared that I will have some kind of crisis come up and need him. Like something with my husband or dad. I hope I can make it thru till then.
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Aug 24, 2006, 12:15 AM
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That sounds hard I am sorry to hear it. I think I would take a temp T till your T comes back feeling well as he will
 because you seem worried about a crisis this would give you a crutch of sorts
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Aug 24, 2006, 12:28 AM
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Why not switch Ts temporarily... you might not discuss the same issues, but it will help stem the tide imo. This is tough, I know.
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Aug 24, 2006, 01:47 AM
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Oh Beth, so sorry to hear that. I'd switch over temporarily because during this time your going to need support. ((((((((Beth)))))))))), you need a Kenny Chesney concert girl....just for a break. I hope your okay.
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Aug 24, 2006, 08:44 AM
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sorry to hear all this - I hope he heals soon.
A temporary t might be a good idea. Mine just went on vacation for three weeks and I'm freaking out! You won't have the same rapport... but at least there will be someone you can talk to. |
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Aug 24, 2006, 11:38 PM
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(((((((((( Beth )))))))))))
The temporary t sounds like a good idea. Hugs, Jan
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#7
Aug 27, 2006, 11:52 PM
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I think i need to continue therapy with another T while he is gone.. I've been thinking long and hard about this the past few days and I just dont think seeing my case manager will be enough. Especially with the stressors I've got right now. I hate feeling so weak .
And I am so scared for my T with what might happen with him. It gets to me thinking of having to start over..... 
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Aug 28, 2006, 05:12 PM
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tryin,
Im so very sad to read of this news. I know it will be hard. Ive just struggled through nearly 4 weeks and that was hard enough. I know its difficult to go to someone else but if it helps then you need to do it. I hope your T gets well real soon. Will you keep us all up to date on how this is going. You are in my thoughts
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Aug 30, 2006, 01:37 PM
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Ohhhh MY GOD!!!!!!!!!! what a horrible day!!!!! Been a long time since I've cried that hard in therapy. T is anxious about his surgery.. fearful of what might happen or what this growth is. We had a really good talk today. About lots of things. He wants me to find something meaningful in my life and work on attaining it. I have no friggin idea where to start! The one thing that I always wanted I cant have. And thats kids. Since our niece had ( the empty sac) and that dream of maybe adopting her baby is gone.. hubby doenst want to adopt another baby at all. And no fostering either. I cant even go there. There are so many things that he said to me and I need to put them into perspective before I talk anymore about them. I am just feeling such anger, fear and pain right now. And I feel like I have no one to talk to anymore. I dont know who to trust anymore or if I can trust anyone else. I dont know what I am going to do....
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Aug 30, 2006, 08:39 PM
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I will pray for you and for your therapist. If anyone else out there prays, let's start a prayer chain. For those who don't pray, let's send out love and positive energy.
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#11
Aug 31, 2006, 04:07 AM
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We are with you...you can pm me anytime...if you are lonely...scared....whatever...I will try to help...hope therapist gets well fast for you and for himself...take care...(((hugs))).
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#12
Sep 04, 2006, 05:10 PM
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Ouch! Just be happy you will see him soon.
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Oct 09, 2006, 09:46 AM
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I was supposed to go back to therapy this week on Wednesday. But they just called and said that my T wont be back till next week. I am ok with him needing his time to do what he needs to take care of himself. But I am also hoping it doesnt take much longer. Its been 6 weeks now. Sorry I am being so stupid here.
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#14
Oct 09, 2006, 09:52 AM
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That must be so frustrating... getting happy to go and then not being able to... Can't you go to someone else in the meantime?
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