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I can see how you might not want to share exactly what your friend is saying about your T, but you should still make sure to let your T know the main point. You could say something like "T, X-friend keeps ignoring my request for boundaries, and she keeps talking about you. I don't like hearing it, and she keeps saying that it's what you've told her to do - to ignore others boundaries if they don't match with her own. That upsets me, and it's making my own therapy harder because I don't want to keep hearing someone else's opinions of you."
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