I think my therapist hates me...

I think my therapist hates me.
He used to care and now he doesn't. Now he's just cold and indifferent. I think he's tired of me. I think he wants me to die. I think I should die. I think his life wud be better off without me.

((Tangerine))

Did he say anything in particular?

Can you talk to him about this? Sometimes we place our own thoughts and expectations onto other people, when they don't think that way at all.

How long ago did he move into cold and indifferent, from whatever it was, that he was before?
Maybe, confront him, ask,'you seem cold and indifferent, is everything alright, between us?'

Most ppl, at least I'd hope, aren't wishing others to cease existing.

Is everything, ok, on your end?

What if, your t is having home life or work life struggles, and aren't even aware they are not quite themselves? What if, they've a cold or sinus infection and are struggling, to just make it through their shift?
There's a slew of possibilities. That wouldn't have a thing to do with you, whatsoever, on a personal level.
Yes, they need to behave professionally, but hey, we are all human.



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I don't think a therapist's life is better or worse due to any client.

I am very sorry for that hopefully the two of you will be able to mend things back together but if not and you have to leave and go somewhere else than do what you have to do.

I have felt this way many times with main T only to be mistaken. Maybe T cares very very much--it's best to tell T straight up that you feel hated. It opens up a pretty healing conversation.

I am sure that your T does not want you to die, Can you discuss this with your T? I hope that you're ok.

My feeling is reinforced because I sent him an email asking for a later appointment and he ignored my email and didn't respond to me. I think he really truly hates me. He is so angry at me. He wants to crush me into pieces till I disintegrate into thin air but I guess I want to do that to myself.
i'm not feeling too well.

You don't know what he is thinking or doing. He might be busy, or hasn't has time to get back to you. You can't know for sure that he hates you.

((Tangerine))

You might want to raise this next time you see him.
How long did you give him to reply?