Rupture.

Hi Asia,

Ruptures are awful, I've a few major and minor ones with my t. My t doesn't handle it as well as yours is.

I truly hope you can work through it, apparently we do our best work if a rupture is worked through.

I think so, i hope so.

Thanks Leah, she did say that she was heartened that i felt enough trust in her to get angry and to act out the way i did, that that is a good sign. lol. And she's right, i suppose i did feel she was a safe enough person and that she most likely wouldn't leave. Didn't stop me trying tho

asia, just now reading through your thread and so glad you've talked and mostly worked it out. i do think you've been doing good work with your T despite her changing things around a bit on you. this was her mistake but she took full responsibility. that is really important that she took responsibility and not too many Ts seem to do that. it's hard because Ts need to be consistent but then when they are flaky it is like real life and we get the opportunity to deal with our baggage. strange paradox. you did nothing wrong here so please remember that even when that 6 year old threatens to pitch a fit. (i'm teasing you here because i know you don't really believe in the inner child stuff.)

hahaha, i do believe in that inner child stuff, kind of..... i just don't like referring to it like it/she is an actual person, like a whole other personality. Bleugh!