T Has A Sex Life?

GenCat · Mar 21, 2014, 04:54 PM

Ive always wondered about this.

I mean I know they are human and do human things like their clients do, but seriously why do I always think about this at some point when I see my T?! Ts really have a sex life!

Mar 21, 2014, 04:59 PM

I'm sure that some do and some don't, just like it is with everybody else. Some people have sex lives, some people don't. It's not exactly a recipe for happiness (or unhappiness), it's just a bodily function.
It is not something that I would be curious about, but if you wonder about it I don't think there's anything weird about that.

HazelGirl · Mar 21, 2014, 05:11 PM

Yep. As do most people...

stopdog · Mar 21, 2014, 05:24 PM

I can't imagine why one would not.

Mar 21, 2014, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

I can't imagine why one would not.

Why who would not what?

Mar 21, 2014, 05:30 PM

Yes, they are humans with needs and wants. Most ts that I know are obsessed with sex

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stopdog · Mar 21, 2014, 05:30 PM

[QUOTE=Mastodon;3652184]Why who would not what?[/Edit

I cannot imagine why a therapist would not have a sex life of some sort.

But in all honesty I also don't care one way or the other. I don't find I wonder much one way or the other about any stranger's sex life.

RTerroni · Mar 21, 2014, 05:31 PM

Mine has a daughter so I assume she does

Mar 21, 2014, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

I cannot imagine why a therapist would not have a sex life of some sort.

For any of the myriad reasons that any other person would not have a sex life of some sort

I'm sorry, I just don't find it interesting or relevant to me, so I should stay out of the discussion.

sweepy62 · Mar 21, 2014, 05:35 PM

I guess she does she is young and married, but I cant and wont go there, with curiosity, thoughts. Imagination, or otherwise, it would just overwhelm me lol.

stopdog · Mar 21, 2014, 05:37 PM

The OP seemed to indicate surprise over the idea. I think most adults have some sort of sex life whether with a partner or not. Certainly not all people do, but I believe a majority of people do. As I consider therapists to be ordinary, I don't know why the usual therapist would be different from the usual anyone else.

lightcatcher · Mar 21, 2014, 05:40 PM

I don't want to think of Ts sex life - it's like thinking of your parents.... Ick.

Mar 21, 2014, 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

I think most adults have some sort of sex life whether with a partner or not. Certainly not all people do, but I believe a majority of people do. As I consider therapists to be ordinary, I don't know why the usual therapist would be different from the usual anyone else.

I consider therapists to be normal, too, and I don't think that it is possible to know what most normal adults do, or don't. So I don't see why one would assume that it is possible to deduce the state of their sex life, without asking them (which I think would be inappropriate).

LadyShadow · Mar 21, 2014, 05:52 PM

I often wondered, but I don't think much about it.

stopdog · Mar 21, 2014, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Mastodon

I consider therapists to be normal, too, and I don't think that it is possible to know what most normal adults do, or don't. So I don't see why one would assume that it is possible to deduce the state of their sex life, without asking them (which I think would be inappropriate).

It appears we have a difference of what is usual. I believe it is usual to have some sort of sex life. You don't appear to agree. Certainly, for me, believing some sort of sex life exists for most healthy adults, is very different than assessing or deducing the state of said sex life. It is all good.

Salmon77 · Mar 21, 2014, 05:58 PM

He's married, so... yeah. I don't give it any thought, really. I'm not sure why it would matter.

RTerroni · Mar 21, 2014, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by PlatinumHeart

I often wondered, but I don't think much about it.

Exactly, especially since I know that my current Therapist is married and has a 3 year old daughter, unless we happen to cross paths outside of Therapy her personal life is really none of my business.

Mar 21, 2014, 06:10 PM

Mine have all been married with several children. Yup. I'm guessing so.

Asiablue · Mar 21, 2014, 08:14 PM

no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no.... NOPE not thinking about it.

(why is there no sick bucket smilie?)

nottrustin · Mar 21, 2014, 08:44 PM

T has been dating a guy for about a year...the spend most weekends together..so while it isn't definite I would assume they do....that being said I don't really think about other peoples sex life.....especially somebody in their sixties.

eskielover · Mar 21, 2014, 08:53 PM

Their sex life is no more our business then their religious life.

I think the question is WHY do you think about it?.....why do you feel that it's any of your business any more than any other aspect of their life?

sailorboy · Mar 21, 2014, 09:23 PM

I don't really think about it. I think about my T's hypothetical relationship but not sex in particular.

GenCat · Mar 21, 2014, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by lightcatcher

I don't want to think of Ts sex life - it's like thinking of your parents.... Ick.

I agree. I don't know why I think about Ts sex life...I just casually get the thought in my head, its not something I fantasize over in details. Ew no.

OneWorld · 11:04 PM

My T doesn't because she ceases to exist after our sessions. She just disappears into the mysterious abyss along with all my secrets.

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CameraObscura · Mar 21, 2014, 10:24 PM

I certainly hope so, because I prefer to operate on the assumption that my Ts have great lives, are happy, and take care of themselves and those they love.

I just prefer not to think about details.

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