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Old May 23, 2014, 11:22 AM
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So I talked to my T and he said he thinks it's a displacement of my worries that I'm not important to him.

I said it's just a stupid toy anyway, it probably doesn't matter to him.

And he said actually it's one of the most valuable toys in his collection because it's a rare collector's item and it's worth a lot of money. Which has helped a great deal.
Okay now im freaking out!!!

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Old May 23, 2014, 11:48 AM
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Okay now im freaking out!!!
Why are you freaking out?!

One other thing about this exchange: my T kissed the toy very gently on its head and said I should look after it. On reflection it was very sweet but I said I thought that was creepy (CSA survivor...) and could he take it back. My T said he felt angry on my behalf that I had to live like that.

I've always wanted him to be angry on my behalf.
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Old May 23, 2014, 11:55 AM
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If its expensive, its too much responsibility for me. I cant be trusted with anything like that. I have warned my t that he should NOT agree to marry me, im a goof. We have been talking recently about how my parents abdicated their responsibility to me, with their attitude of my way or the highway. Thats probably why i cant take of myself? Idk.
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Old May 23, 2014, 12:01 PM
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If its expensive, its too much responsibility for me. I cant be trusted with anything like that. I have warned my t that he should NOT agree to marry me, im a goof. We have been talking recently about how my parents abdicated their responsibility to me, with their attitude of my way or the highway. Thats probably why i cant take of myself? Idk.
I needed it to be valuable, so that worked for me. I think because he didn't tell me when I took it, didn't stress me out, just trusted me with it and only told me its value when I asked.

Also meant to say thanks brillskep
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Old May 23, 2014, 12:38 PM
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I love hearing about your T, tinyrabbit. I'm so glad you're back here!
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Old May 23, 2014, 12:50 PM
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Why are you freaking out?!

One other thing about this exchange: my T kissed the toy very gently on its head and said I should look after it. On reflection it was very sweet but I said I thought that was creepy (CSA survivor...) and could he take it back. My T said he felt angry on my behalf that I had to live like that.

I've always wanted him to be angry on my behalf.
Aww, I think this is really sweet. I've always loved your T a little bit. However, I'd probably have had the exact same reaction that you had.
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Old May 23, 2014, 01:17 PM
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I'm not sure what to write. I may go down the excessively therapyish route of just telling him I thought of doing it...

Dear Tinyrabbit's T,
Having a great time in Tinyrabbit's house. She has the best parties.
Love
The Toy
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Old May 23, 2014, 01:42 PM
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I love hearing about your T, tinyrabbit. I'm so glad you're back here!
Aw, thank you. Not sure I'll tell my T he has a fan club...
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Old May 24, 2014, 12:08 AM
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I'm in the fan club too. He sounds huggable and squishy.
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Old May 24, 2014, 06:23 AM
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He is very huggable, it's true. Especially when he wears his big cardigan.
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Old May 24, 2014, 06:23 AM
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Aww, I think this is really sweet. I've always loved your T a little bit. However, I'd probably have had the exact same reaction that you had.
I did also point out that, as the T represents him, he was basically kissing himself...
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Old May 24, 2014, 02:14 PM
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I did also point out that, as the T represents him, he was basically kissing himself...


"Mr Darcy may hug himself."
(sorry, I couldn't resist)
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Old May 24, 2014, 02:31 PM
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He is very huggable, it's true. Especially when he wears his big cardigan.

Mr. Rogers! I think I love your T too...
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At poor peace I sing
To you strangers (though song
Is a burning and crested act,
The fire of birds in
The world's turning wood,
For my sawn, splay sounds,)
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Old May 24, 2014, 02:32 PM
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I did also point out that, as the T represents him, he was basically kissing himself...

Lmao! Well, self-love is the best kind, right?
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At poor peace I sing
To you strangers (though song
Is a burning and crested act,
The fire of birds in
The world's turning wood,
For my sawn, splay sounds,)
...'
Dylan Thomas, Author's Prologue
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