Two hypothetical T related questions!

A whole day for me with my T, would probably mean: having breakfast together, showing him my house, looking at photos, doing therapy outdoors, going for a long drive by the sea, finding a peaceful spot and having a pic-nic (some bread, cheese, fruit, chocolate, and a little bit of wine). Or cooking together! Then in the evening, we would go to the opera and afterwards we'd walk for a while in the empty streets, unwinding, and part with a hug (never given me one).

I'd love to go to a trip with him (or, at least, I love to imagine going!), but only after our therapy would be over. If we went someplace in Europe, I'd love to visit with him a small Greek island named Kastelorizo and it's famous Blue Cave (google it!), or Lisbon, or even take the Trans-Siberian Railway trip together! I'd love to have therapy while traveling by train and watching the scenery..

Would you share your fantasy with your T?

My fantasy would be for T and I to go to Paris, and explore the city, eat divine food, sip on wine and make passionate love all day and night.

A day with T... we would dull the bejeasus out of each other and end up dozing of on a couch some where.
as for a holiday/vacation skiing somewhere just so as we can laugh at each other as we keep falling down.

Absolutely brilliant.

I wouldn't want to be with my T for 24hrs straight... Nor would I want to go on vacation with her.

If I could be with her for a few hrs, I'd spend the time talking and debating with her. There are so many times our conversations could go on for hours. And I mean an actual conversation that doesn't focus on my issues.

i tried to contemplate this question and it made me feel weird. like, i know what he likes and i know we have a lot in common and could definitely fit a full day in together... but if i had a whole day and no kids, i'd genuinely want to spend it with my hubs. when i imagine traveling to another city, it's the man i married i want to be with.

not to be a downer on the question. i think my t is awesome and i deeply value the time we spend together (and wouldn't mind longer sessions lol - maybe coffee, i'd do coffee) but he's not the man i want to be with or the friend i imagine having when i imagine the answers to these questions.

oh heck no~ 24 hours and my T would break me. There is no stepping aside for a few hours. she's my therapist and I'm a mess. But if I can be anywhere~ i guess I'd like to break on an empty beach.

iiheart: Hey! That is my fantasy too.....I even wrote a poem about where we would go and what we would do; described the hotel (like Versailles) and was very descriptive...... I know he woudl love to do it. I told him I would leave him in "ashes." lOL

A really long therapy session... Without the painful ending after 50 mins.

It's really what I need. I have an amazing H and some very close friends who I would far more enjoy spending 24 hrs with, even though I think my T is an amazing therapist and person for that matter. She's my 5th T since I became an adult and the first one I lasted more than a few months with.

Spend the morning just hanging out in a park, talking like normal people, then a nice leisurely lunch, then an afternoon/evening stroll along a beach. Then that night having her fall asleep in my arms (no sex) would feel so nice, but not as nice as waking up with her next to me. Hey I get 24 hours right?

For a vacation Tahiti sounds good