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Old Jul 20, 2014, 07:19 PM
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idk. what about your husband? doesn't he deserve something?
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Old Jul 20, 2014, 07:21 PM
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I don't think of help as deserved or not. If one wants to be helped, then one make take what help is offered. Deserve does not enter into it for me. Take deserve out of the equation, and if you want help, let yourself accept it.
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Old Jul 20, 2014, 07:25 PM
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You deserve to be heard, you deserve respect and you deserve compassion. You most certainly do and if you are not getting it from anyone then you have every right to walk into the emergency room and ask for help. If your T is not listening to you then please find another one who will. Call someone...call a friend....do something because you are worth it.
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Old Jul 20, 2014, 07:31 PM
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Stop responding to this thread. I don't wanto hear anymore. I'm sorry I ever opened it

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Old Jul 20, 2014, 07:32 PM
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you can delete it. just report your own thread. however, i think it's unreasonable to demand people behave a certain way on the internet.
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Old Jul 20, 2014, 07:47 PM
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You have no idea what I deserve! I'm a horrible excuse for a human. I deserve nothing!

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You do deserve life. I am so sorry you are hurting so much. I can tell you're in a lot of pain. But the things done to you don't make you unworthy. The things you've done don't make you unworthy, either. It's only your choices from today onward that determine your worth and value. You can have a better life, I promise. You can get through this. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, even if you can't see it. I promise.
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Old Jul 20, 2014, 08:02 PM
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If you didn't sign consent, then she can't talk to your H. Even if you did sign consent, you can revoke it at any time.

My fiance is my emergency contact and that's it. The ONLY time she can initiate contact with him is in the case of an emergency: if she's calling 911 on me or hospitalizing me, then she can tell him. She can't even say why I'm being hospitalized. Beyond that, she can't say anything to him. If my fiance calls her, she'll listen to him, but she can't say anything about me.

But I gave my T and Pdoc full consent to talk to each other. They can talk whenever they want about whatever they want. Though, it is my right to limit or restrict even them at any point in time.

Your T has no right to talk to your H unless she has your consent.
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