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Sep 21, 2014, 02:57 PM
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I didn't know where to post this.
My workmates are against me and say Im sick even public. People hate me. It's not my imagination. My schoolmates doesn't talk to me anymore. People all my life were against me and it's for real. I don't see any reason to live. Nothing can ever help me, I feel cursed. No one ever needed me, they would be happy if I died. Don't say that therapy will help me. It can't change reality. Even being with friends if friends exist doesn't help me. Even being with my boyfriend doesn't help me. Nothing helps me. Why to live? |
 Aloneandafraid, Anonymous327328, growlycat
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Sep 21, 2014, 03:34 PM
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Live for you and for the realities yet to be known. Try for something different. Don't rely on those you find unreliable; instead rely on yourself and gain faith in yourself, and see if it doesn't change your outlook. Meet new people if the ones you are around aren't inspiring you.
It beats the alternative. It would be a shame not to have checked out other possibilities. Maybe what you've experienced thus far in life is only one one-hundredth of what is still out there for you. Let your haters be your motivators. If they talk trash about you, why? Because they have nothing better to do, because they are small-minded. Be better than that and be proud. Just a few ideas.
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“We use our minds not to discover facts but to hide them. One of things the screen hides most effectively is the body, our own body, by which I mean, the ins and outs of it, its interiors. Like a veil thrown over the skin to secure its modesty, the screen partially removes from the mind the inner states of the body, those that constitute the flow of life as it wanders in the journey of each day.” — Antonio R. Damasio, “The Feeling of What Happens: Body and Emotion in the Making of Consciousness” (p.28) |
 Aloneandafraid, lunatic soul
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Sep 21, 2014, 03:46 PM
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My girlfriends are selfish *****es. Sad but true. Girls use to hate me for nothing, so I don't believe in true friendship. If Im honest I want to kill some people but I won't |
| Aloneandafraid
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#4
Sep 21, 2014, 03:54 PM
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Nah, don't give up your livelihood over some jerky people. Just smile knowingly at them, it will confuse them. Be better than they are, and let your satisfaction come from that.
Like that expression, "kill them with kindness", for they shall not know what to do. 
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“We use our minds not to discover facts but to hide them. One of things the screen hides most effectively is the body, our own body, by which I mean, the ins and outs of it, its interiors. Like a veil thrown over the skin to secure its modesty, the screen partially removes from the mind the inner states of the body, those that constitute the flow of life as it wanders in the journey of each day.” — Antonio R. Damasio, “The Feeling of What Happens: Body and Emotion in the Making of Consciousness” (p.28) |
| Aloneandafraid, lunatic soul
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Sep 21, 2014, 03:57 PM
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I just don't know how. I hope God will help me. |
| Aloneandafraid, vonmoxie
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Sep 21, 2014, 04:07 PM
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To be honest, I kind of like when people hate me for no good reason. It gives me a window into who they really are, into the kinds of things that they allow to define their behaviors. It gives me more power, releasing me from any misguided inclination I might have had previously to overextend myself to them.
That they would allow themselves to take on inappropriate behaviors as a result simply means that they are challenged about something about you. That they are out of control actually means that you have some power over them, even though they are making a point of acting out the opposite of that principle.
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“We use our minds not to discover facts but to hide them. One of things the screen hides most effectively is the body, our own body, by which I mean, the ins and outs of it, its interiors. Like a veil thrown over the skin to secure its modesty, the screen partially removes from the mind the inner states of the body, those that constitute the flow of life as it wanders in the journey of each day.” — Antonio R. Damasio, “The Feeling of What Happens: Body and Emotion in the Making of Consciousness” (p.28) |
| Aloneandafraid, healingme4me, lunatic soul
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#7
Sep 22, 2014, 05:26 AM
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As nietzsche said "we are the abyss and the tightrope" or something like that.
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| growlycat
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#8
Sep 23, 2014, 11:04 AM
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Great my boss told me she doesnt want me to work here anymore...
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#9
Sep 23, 2014, 02:22 PM
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What happened??? Were you fired or did your boss just make a nasty comment?
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Sep 23, 2014, 04:08 PM
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Okay thanks God I have two friends there and I felt better after talking to them but still horrible. |
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Sep 23, 2014, 05:38 PM
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This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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