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#1
Apr 09, 2015, 04:29 PM
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Is that bad?
I have a session in 4 hours......and I am so anxiius, angry, sad, scared, annoyed, hurt........all those things I guess and more, that I feel sick with anticipation. Really want to tell him to stick it! Would that be hurting myself too, if I don't at least try for a good ending wih him? Gah! Looking for support to get me there I think. 
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#2
Apr 09, 2015, 05:26 PM
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I think it would be more helpful to explore these feelings with him. It's understandable that you have a lot coming up, with him leaving. Do you think your wanting to avoid the session is protective?
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#3
Apr 09, 2015, 06:40 PM
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It feels like I will be hurt all over again, like I am being. Like I am having something bad done to me that I dont want.......and I have absolutely no control over and cant stop it happening. By not going, not communicating I will be taking some control back.......and not a single thing abiut that makes sense! |
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#4
Apr 09, 2015, 10:47 PM
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I think I would feel exactly as you describe. My head tells me to write how important it is to go, but I really get the feelings of saying stick it!
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#5
Apr 09, 2015, 11:19 PM
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(((JaneC)))
Did you end up going? How'd it go? Were you able to talk with your T at all? Hope you were able to connect with him a little, and that he was able to help some! 
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Apr 10, 2015, 04:41 AM
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(((Jane))))
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Apr 10, 2015, 10:37 AM
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maybe you could write it down? --- hand it over and wait.
who are you really "punishing" by not communicating? [then again...I have done the same to maintain "control" in the past...so what do i know] ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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#8
Apr 10, 2015, 11:18 AM
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Go! Tell him in person!
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#9
Apr 10, 2015, 04:11 PM
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 He laughed, got serious, made me talk about it, then told me he was very happy to see me there, really. What a mess! |
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Apr 11, 2015, 02:04 AM
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It does sound a mess, hope you are doing ok today.
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Apr 11, 2015, 02:54 AM
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im glad he was happy to see you.
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