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#926
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A couple of weeks ago, I mentioned to the couch that I am pretty apprehensive about T's upcoming vacation, and that I wonder whether he could do something help me with that. Last Thursday, just before my time was up, I was finally able to ask him whether it would be okay for me to ask him for that. (Yay meta communication...) He said that it was something we could absolutely talk about next time. Next time being this morning. The subject did not come up.
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#928
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MKAC I hope you are in a better place this week now that you have let your T know how things are . I hope you have a good session today
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BEHAVIORS ARE EASY WORDS ARE NOT ![]() Dx, HUMAN Rx, no medication for that |
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#930
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I'm going to do this! I love watching candles and get relaxed NEVER thought of watching one to help sleep. Wonder if it will help my sleeping issues...
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**the curiosity can kill the soul but leave the pain and every ounce of innocence is left inside her brain**
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Mast, even my t, whom i blatantly adore, is afraid im gonna leave him for someone else. So i wonder if the opposite of what you fear isnt true - that he is afraid to lose you and therefore "forgot" to mention it.
I may have an extra "not" in there - we can donate it to stopdog ![]() |
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I am not unwilling to share nots.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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How true is that!! I honestly thought sitting in the waiting room before my first appointment "Eh, how long can it take? 6 months?" Wasn't I cute?!
![]() 3.5 years later having just ended weekly/biweekly sessions, I am quite aware of how much my "work" has really just begun.... this "inner work" is truly work for a lifetime, the work OF a lifetime... I will never be done. And that's okay! As I told t last week - realizing how much my work has just begun, is simultaneously thrilling, humbling and yeah, a little frightening. And I'm thankful she's open to me calling her if I need/want her input down the road... But yeah. I agree, I don't think anybody goes into therapy knowing exactly what to expect... |
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I love the couch. I'm glad I decided to come by one day.
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**the curiosity can kill the soul but leave the pain and every ounce of innocence is left inside her brain**
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(((Mast))) I know my T is very big into me asking for the things I need. He usually won't bring stuff like this back up - he wants me to do it. He'll often say something like 'I'm proud of you for asking for [thing you need]'. He wants me to be able to take care of myself and taking care of myself doesn't mean that I can do everything for myself, but that I'm able to ask for help when I need it... I don't know... Maybe your T thinks along similar lines?
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While tying my brain in knots.
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#937
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You can say *that* again! ![]()
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The only thing that would make the couch better is if it were physically in my living room ![]()
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'... At poor peace I sing To you strangers (though song Is a burning and crested act, The fire of birds in The world's turning wood, For my sawn, splay sounds,) ...' Dylan Thomas, Author's Prologue |
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![]() I'm sorry for being negative and antisocial. I should go home, but I don't want to. I am not doing well right now. ![]() |
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**the curiosity can kill the soul but leave the pain and every ounce of innocence is left inside her brain**
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Mast, can you message him? Therapy is not a competition, except maybe against yourself as the only person who wins or loses is you.
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Cripes!
My T has (I'm sure) forgotten to bring stuff up the following week. It would be nice to think that she was empowering me to discuss what I want to discuss, but actually I think the truth is simply, I am one of many and she is a bit forgetful. It does hurt. And i tend to think 'well **** you then, I'm never talking about that ever again' then spend weeks hinting at it until we get back to it. Sigh. ![]() |
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I did try to keep the nest out of my garage, moved it several times to a tree, but they kept re-building it here in the garage, so I let it go. Now mama bird has 2 babies!! They are so cute but I worry about them of course, I hope they fly away safely soon so I can stop worrying! But they are cute.
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How about 'I'm upset that we didn't talk about that thing I had asked you about, can you please help me to bring it up in our next session?' OMG! That is something I'd expect to see happen in Ireland! How does an official convoy get in an accident anyway?
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Doves? You know those little buggers have a tendency to push each other out of the nest...
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Well my T had to move my session from tomorrow to today because of a family thing. I'm glad I still have a session but I'm still upset over what she said last time and I was counting on another day to get myself over it. Now I'm kind of scared. Since this is my half day off from work in theory at least I planned to do some yoga then ride my horse to get myself in a better place. But when I got up I realized the raccoon had a injury on her upper jaw that wasn't apparent the first night and she had torn out some stitches. 3 hours later I smelled of raccoon pee in my yoga clothes and all I had time for was a shower. Very out of sorts. Not feeling ready for T
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Eek! No, I didn't know that!! Maybe I'll put some blankets under it or something just in case... and leave a car out in the driveway...
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