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Jul 20, 2015, 03:38 PM
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So, I've been in therapy with the same T for 3 years. I can't say I have any erotic transference. Things are always happening in my Therapy but I can't say anything has specifically changed.
My T is maybe 8-10 years older than me and I think pretty attractive but not strikingly so. All of a sudden I am all crushy fan girl-ish...she painted and rearranged her office and I walked in and thought "T is so cool! Look at the color she picked! She has such awesome taste!!" She sent me a play list when she went on vacation and I was all geek ed out like "T has such incredible taste in music" Now I am admiring her clothes ( not my style at all) and choice of art for the walls ( also not my style).All of a sudden my brain is just going on about how utterly amazing my T is. It's kind of silly and is sort of cracking me up . I'm definitely not attracted to her ----thinking about her in eve. The slightest romantic way makes me go "eeeew" . But I am like a twelve year old starry eyed about her favorite camp counselor..... I feel vaguely silly even though I honestly adore my T even when I am not all fan girl... |
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#2
Jul 20, 2015, 05:16 PM
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If it is a good feeling, sounds like something to be enjoyed.
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#3
Jul 20, 2015, 05:23 PM
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I feel that way toward PrevT more so than CurrentT. I have not felt erotically attracted to either of them, either. My feelings are totally as if PrevT is a movie star.
I haven't figured it out. I deal with it by accepting it as "that's just the way I feel."  I guess it's a need of mine (I don't know what) being met. Sooo, I am right in line behind you, BB. |
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#4
Jul 20, 2015, 06:24 PM
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It's kind of a good feeling but I also feel kind of silly. Even when I WAS a teenager I never got all gooey about celebrities. Part of me is laughing at myself and part of Mr is worried the sudden change MEANS something. Like says something about how my therapy is going or something.
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#5
Jul 20, 2015, 07:53 PM
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I'm feeling a similar way about my t after our talk today.... I absolutely adore that lady!!
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| BayBrony, precaryous
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Jul 20, 2015, 08:09 PM
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I felt similarly about previous T (when I wasn't hating her guts or crushing on her or scared for my life of her. Gods, all the different feelings for that woman. It was nuts...) It totally had the feeling of tween girl adoring an adult who is so much cooler than your parents. I still feel like I want to be like her when I grow up
 I don't think it means anything bad. It's a normal healthy part of growing up. I never idolized celebrities growing up either. And I couldn't deal with the same sex attractions I was feeling. I pretended to myself that I hated any women/girls (and sometimes men too) that I was attracted to
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#7
Jul 21, 2015, 08:28 PM
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I never idolised celebrities growing up too, yet have all sorts of idealizaton for T!
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#8
Jul 22, 2015, 06:59 AM
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It sounds like your therapist is good and does have a good taste! So appreciating is not bad at all. I would be more concerned if she was bad t but you still would be excited. But if she is good then why not!
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Jul 22, 2015, 08:26 AM
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Jul 22, 2015, 10:13 AM
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 please ignore if you already got married! 
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Jul 22, 2015, 12:41 PM
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This is just legal though. Making sure we get it done before our license expires. The party/wedding for friends and family isn't until the fall |
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Jul 22, 2015, 02:46 PM
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Jul 22, 2015, 03:11 PM
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You are getting married and keeping it a secret!!! Congrats. Wow that's awesome.
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Jul 22, 2015, 03:34 PM
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Jul 22, 2015, 08:33 PM
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I was teasing you about secret! I figured you've been together for a long time. Still very happy for you.
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Jul 22, 2015, 08:53 PM
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I'm just sorry it took our country so long to get out of the dark ages (well, we are getting there.) |
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#17
Jul 22, 2015, 09:16 PM
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Congrats Brony
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