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Comfort clothes (jammy bottoms, sweats) 16 18.39%
Comfort clothes (jammy bottoms, sweats)
16 18.39%
Casual (jeans) 55 63.22%
Casual (jeans)
55 63.22%
Business casual (slacks, nice shirt) 22 25.29%
Business casual (slacks, nice shirt)
22 25.29%
Business formal (suit) 2 2.30%
Business formal (suit)
2 2.30%
Formal formal (tux, corsage, the whole nine yards) 1 1.15%
Formal formal (tux, corsage, the whole nine yards)
1 1.15%
Other 11 12.64%
Other
11 12.64%
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 01:11 PM
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Casual, t-shirts and jeans. (Okay, actually cargo pants, I don't own any jeans.) These are also what I wear at the office, thanks to working for a laid-back business. I keep it simple but always try to look nice.

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Old Aug 14, 2015, 01:14 PM
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Jeans, t-shirt and converses
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 01:58 PM
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Usually I wear whatever I'm wearing that day. Jeans mostly, shirt or tank top since it's hot out. I've worn scrubs before, and he's mentioned that he doesn't usually see me in them.
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I have no idea what I wore yesterday - let alone at the last therapist appointment.
It's like therapy/therapist is somewhat a dumping ground. A landfill of sorts. I wouldn't be able to remember what is in my trash pile.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 02:27 PM
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Around the house I'm naked most of the time... (: No complaints from my H.
My T once told me, in response to whether it was OK to do a certain thing in session (in this case, when talking to her, referring to my marriage counselor, her coworker, by his first name rather than Dr. MC). She said I could do anything I wanted in there except take my clothes off. Which...seemed sort of random at the time.

Not to put something dark into a fun thread, but
Possible trigger:
She said it was up to me, and I chose to do that, so I lifted up my shirt. Then I was like, "Oh, I guess I'm breaking the rule about not taking my clothes off in here!" Added a bit of humor to things... I also joked with her about showing my marriage counselor, for whom I have some transference, and being like, "Whoops, accidentally took my whole shirt off there! And my bra, too, not sure how that happened!"
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 02:34 PM
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Jeans and a black t-shirt, like I always wear every day.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 02:36 PM
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Neither am I, that's why I'm not comfortable with these labels (actually it's because I don't know anything about clothing and never notice what other people wear. It's like face blindness, but for clothes.)
If you are comfortable sharing, what is your country of origin?

I actually am somewhat face-blind. Unless I see someone daily, I would not recognize them in public, and even for the daily people it would be iffy. Even my young adult children would be a challenge for me. As a kid, I kept track of my son during soccer games by paying attention to where other parents yelling his name. Anyway, I also would never remember what someone else wore the day before. I have always been awed by the idea that people who witness a crime can pick the accused out if a lineup. I would be absolutely useless, and I do not understand how someone would remember facial details! Gender and race would be as much as I could do.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 02:46 PM
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If you are comfortable sharing, what is your country of origin?

I actually am somewhat face-blind. Unless I see someone daily, I would not recognize them in public, and even for the daily people it would be iffy. Even my young adult children would be a challenge for me. As a kid, I kept track of my son during soccer games by paying attention to where other parents yelling his name. Anyway, I also would never remember what someone else wore the day before. I have always been awed by the idea that people who witness a crime can pick the accused out if a lineup. I would be absolutely useless, and I do not understand how someone would remember facial details! Gender and race would be as much as I could do.
I have some degree of face blindness, too! Gene Weingarten has written about it in chats and a column in the Washington Post, and it made me feel much better. Like, I often worried when I met a guy for a second date that I wouldn't be able to pick him out of a crowd! (Luckily, my H is very distinctive looking.)
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 03:01 PM
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So people just go outside in their jammie bottoms? Their real pyjama. Not that fashion trend where clothing looks like pyjama's, but their sleep pyjama?


I haven't seen that here. People wear sweatpants in public, but pyjama's.

Yes many people do it. I find it horrendous and can't wrap my mind around it. ( I do understand if someone dress like this due to MI)

I once drove through neighborhoods where everyone wore pajamas outside. They also appeared high or buzzed. It was high in mountains. Both I am my BF had anxiety attack in there from elevation and sense of danger and lack of oxygen.

We decided if we lived there we would also wore pajamas and smoke pot. So perhaps they had their reasoning for being dressed that way. Like they gave up. And kids walked around in diapers no other clothes. It was strange

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Old Aug 14, 2015, 03:04 PM
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To comment on face blindness. I don't recognize people's voices. Can't hear the difference. I only know by greetings. It all sounds same to me

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Old Aug 14, 2015, 03:23 PM
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on a different note, i can never remember what my T wears. I was trying to remember today after my session, and i think maybe it was something blue.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 03:28 PM
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My clothing varies, from Edwardian gent to punk goth and at the neutral point is jeans and a T. I have noticed that there are a couple of outfits at the girly end of the spectrum that seem to coincide with T running his hand through his hair as we go to the room. Maybe just reading to much into that though lol.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 03:35 PM
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If you are comfortable sharing, what is your country of origin?
Sweden. I've never lived anywhere else. May I ask why you asked?
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 03:51 PM
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Should we all go in formal wear, or swimwear, next session, and compare T reactions?
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 03:54 PM
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It's like therapy/therapist is somewhat a dumping ground. A landfill of sorts. I wouldn't be able to remember what is in my trash pile.
No, this is not about therapy but about me and clothes. I really couldn't say what I wore for anything. I know I wear a suit to court, but not which one. I really don't know what I wore each day this week - and I have no idea what others wear either. Clothes are not something I think about much.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 04:26 PM
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Depends on what I'm doing before and after, but usually I am casual. Occasionally dressed up for work or dating purposes. I don't leave the house in "comfort clothes" and never wear suits.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 05:23 PM
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Should we all go in formal wear, or swimwear, next session, and compare T reactions?
This...is brilliant. I don't own formal wear, but I can do swimwear.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 05:32 PM
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There was that time when I had a session kind of on my way to one of my concerts, so I was dressed in my concert attire: long black dress, heels, pearl and diamond jewelry (awful costume jewelry). That certainly got me some looks. I've kind of gotten used to those looks. People do a double-take when I stop to fill up the gas tank in that garb. It's actually rather entertaining.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 06:49 PM
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My t wears stockings with sandals. It's weird.

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Old Aug 14, 2015, 07:51 PM
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Jammies or sweats
I say I don't care, yet at the same time I'm envious when I read this. I LIVE in mens' lounge pants, usually with prints on them, and I'd love to wear them to therapy, but too self conscious to be THAT casual! Although I have worn scrub bottoms. I used to work in a lab, and loved my scrubs!
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 07:57 PM
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Dresses, high heels; love to dress up.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 07:58 PM
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on a different note, i can never remember what my T wears. I was trying to remember today after my session, and i think maybe it was something blue.
I'm the same way. I can't usually tell you what my T wears on any given day. I just don't look at her enough to notice. I feel rude about that, but it's just who I am.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 08:16 PM
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This...is brilliant. I don't own formal wear, but I can do swimwear.
Not sure my H would be OK with me showing up in swimwear to our marriage counseling session For T, she says I'm dressed up anytime I wear a dress, so formal attire would take it to another level.
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 08:37 PM
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T suggested once that I come in my interview clothes. I declined, simply because I was still with the stbx at the time and I wasn't about to deal with his reaction. I went to previous T once in them - I was coming straight from court (loooong story...). That was the day she threw me out
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Old Aug 14, 2015, 09:12 PM
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Sweden. I've never lived anywhere else. May I ask why you asked?
Just curious. One of the neurologists I work with is from Sweden. She visits there quite a bit. And actually, because of where I work, I treat patients from all over the world on a regular basis.

Anyway, I really do enjoy learning about other cultures etc.
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