Couch 114 - Take a Pew

I'd love to see him! I have never had a dog, just cats for the last 15 years or so, but puppies are puppies regardless of their species!

He is soo cute!

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It's tempting, but now I am intrigued.. Sex as always just be an physical act to me.. To think there are people who think of it as making love is something foreign and I want to learn more. It's hard cause I think my t is a total romantic, he is obviously in love with his wife.. So is this just some feeling on his part or is it, is there psychological evidence that having an intimate relationship with the person you are having sex with an beneficial thing.

There can never be objective universal evidence for that - you can learn about what is true for populations of people but nothing is true for all people (with the exception of the physiological needs we all have such as food and water). The best we can ever hope for in terms of evidence of anything to do with human behaviour or what is beneficial is "x is positive for a majority of the examined individuals in this study" - and then you of course have to take into account who exactly was in the study.

But yeah, learning more about how other people tick can be a fascinating thing. Me, I stay as far away from any positive talk about sex as I can, because I am pathetic and despicable, but I admire people who are able to face that kind of thing.

That's something I'm working on right now, the intimacy in marriage thing. It's a rare thing, in my marriage, it is, and it has nothing at all to do with sex. At least, to me. Sex is something I feel like I 'have' to do.... ugh.

Got home a little bit ago from our trash-pickup volunteer thingy my friend and I from work do. We had one other person show up today, and we collected 3 big bags of trash. Go us! Girl power! Here I am with our haul. Ain't I stylin' in the day-glo safety vest?

You sure are! Good job. Girls rule!!!!

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Your assignment, should you choose to accept it, is to find out the ancestry of the Mr Stanley who designed the current Canadian flag. He does not appear to be related to Lord Stanley of hockey's Stanley Cup. But there sure do seem to be a lot of Stanleys... uh... proliferating up there! TIA (both meanings!)

Youre still posing in that sweet-girl-on-the-rocks pose

Well, I do believe I recognize that mountain range. I guess it's a small world, after all!

Sweet picture. Go Girl Power.

[QUOTE=Crocus;5080893 Me, I stay as far away from any positive talk about sex as I can, because I am pathetic and despicable, but I admire people who are able to face that kind of thing.[/QUOTE]

Aww, you make me sad Despicable is quite a strong word, and I disagree with it! (And pathetic, obviously)

Yeah, I guess the "good little girl" will forever be a part of me....!

I love the mountains here!

And argon - I have always read your user name as "argonaut mobile" - just for the first time right now noticed it's "argon automobile"!! I am so silly.

I could not have manufactured intimacy with a man. I could be physical with men and reasonably enjoy it as an activity (and by men - I mean 2 of them - not a large number by any means I grant. And by enjoy it I mean it felt okay enough to do if there was nothing else going on that was more interesting). I did not understand what people were going on about until I was with a woman.

Not good - sweet, adventurous! A ruffly toddler mountain climber! You cant keep her down!

Well...if my bucket list included "run into your therapist in the gym locker room while she is in a state of complete undress," I would now be able to check that off.

This is where my unwavering belief in my inability to recognize the woman outside of her office comes in quite handy.

I would not have noticed her - my policy in locker rooms being get in and out as quickly as possible and keep custody of my eyes because people do all kinds of things in there I don't want to see - but she attracted my attention by waving at me.

Good lord. I wonder what possessed her to do such a mad thing? Did she not attend the class in don't acknowledge a client unless they acknowledge you first?

I also suspect the one I see of being unable to recognize me outside of her office as well. She has a memory like a sieve.

I agree with stopdog. Why on earth? And in a state of undress? Madness.

She's done it before - I was early once and waited in a park near her office. She walked by, saw me, and waved. So yeah, she missed that lesson.

Hi Couch. I just wanted to scream a second - aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrgggggggghhhhhhh. That is all.

Fine with me. I wish I could do that.

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http://psychcentral.com/blog/archive...ist-in-public/
Thought this might be good to read for you, Atisketatasket.

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