T appt ....sore throat

just needed to whine a little....

i have my second appt w/ my T at 2...

but i have a wicked sore throat!!! little blisters in my throat and everything!!! feeling rotten...

((((((((((((((( gostryter )))))))))))))))))

((((((gostryter))))))))))

maybe strep?? hope you feel better soon

stress?

I'm sorry gostryter!!!

There's something going around. I was sick myself a little over a week ago and now my bro-in-law is sick too...

Did you go to therapy anyway? Maybe you can reschedule quickly and just rest up for a day or two. I know I absolutely hate missing therapy, so that's gotta suck.

Sidony

hello...yep i went to T today...

i really hope my throat isn't the flu - last time i had little blisters like this i thought it was strep...but was the flu...course now i think its the flu its probly strep...oh well

ok this is gotta be some kinda record...my T asked if i wanted a different T....LOL!!!!! geez one and a half sessions in and he's already try'n to get rid of me!!!!

really he just asked if i'd be more comfortable with a woman T .... i said no.... my mom's a woman...my boss is a woman...last thing i need is another woman tell'n me whats wrong w/ me!!! ugh

gawd i frustrate the bajeebers out of my Ts...i can't help i have a hard time talking....geez....i said stuff....but T said that he wasn't a mind reader...good....don't want nobody pok'n around in there! scary place....my mind.....

i hope my T doesn't try to get rid of me...i like him ....don't think he likes me much though...

((gostryter))

So sorry about your sore throat.

</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
ok this is gotta be some kinda record...my T asked if i wanted a different T...

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">

Do you know why he said that? Do you feel comfortable with him? It takes time to be able to open up. And Ts may get frustrated but the first order of business is the relationship. I have just finally cried in front of T and I have been seeing him for 11 months!!!

If you like him, but think he doesn't like you, then please make sure you discuss this first before anything else. Let him know how you feel and see if you can make progress on the relationship.

Beste of luck.

thanks sister!

i dunno...i know i aggrevate Ts to no end...i don't mean to...i know you're suppose to share stuff in therapy...i just have a really hard time talking...

i think maybe he was just posing the question...it was just focussed on whether i'd be more comfortable with a woman not just do i want another T in general...

maybe he thought thats why i wasn't saying much...i dunno

i hope that's all it was...i almost said something about it...i'll try to bring it up next time....

thanks again!!