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I can't stop thinking about this and I'm feeling really bad and sad for this stupid thing. At the end of the session I asked my T when sessions will end, and she said to me that we can't know, sessions will end when I will achieve therapy goals. I stayed quiet for a bit, and then told her what if I want to quit? I want to change T and see if there is a T near my area. Then my T seemed surprised, and said to me that we have work to do, but she told me "if you want to quit, you can go" but she didn't seem happy with it, she didn't agree with me. I'm thinking that maybe she is mad at me now because I want to quit and she doesn't think it's a good idea, maybe she want me to stay. I'm feeling bad and I feel I'm a bad person.
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alpacalicous: You are NOT a bad person.
And please, don't feel stupid or bad for bringing this topic up and discussing it with your T. You are a free person and you are free to change therapists - for whatever reason. Maybe your T was just surprised because she didn't expect this discussion. And maybe not at this point in time. After all, she said, that you could go... So I don't think she is mad with you. Maybe it is worth looking into how she could support you during this transition:
And maybe she might find it difficult to let go - but this would be about her and not about you. Sending you warm hugs, and please, don't beat yourself up about this. |
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That seems like a small child's thinking. Is best to test this thoughts with a mature direct conversation with the T.
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The therapist is an employee with no authority or supremacy over the client. The latter is completely free to do what she wants. It's about the client's life, not the therapist's vanity
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![]() alpacalicious, GeminiNZ
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Thanks for the replies
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