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Old Jun 05, 2017, 02:34 PM
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She said to let her know if I wanted to come back and talk things through and, if not, here are some references.

Which was really the most professional response possible.
Well that's good, at least. How do you feel about it? (haha, so therapist-y of me!)
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 03:01 PM
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jDNA--your pic has identifying info on it. You might want to delete it.
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 03:21 PM
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ATAT - that is probably the best response the therapist could have given
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 03:29 PM
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jDNA--your pic has identifying info on it. You might want to delete it.
I don't mind and that's not even my info. Thanks tho
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 03:35 PM
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My T's new place is good. He has really cuddly cushions.

It turns out I really am a bit obsessed with cushions.
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 04:36 PM
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My T's new place is good. He has really cuddly cushions.

It turns out I really am a bit obsessed with cushions.
M has a whole big pile on the floor some of them are from mexico and others from japan, I asked.

One time when he pissed me off I made a huuuuge pillow fort to talk out of and he wasn't allowed on the fort half of the room unless he asked. I don't even remember why I was mad but clearly the fort was the sticking point
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 04:39 PM
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One time when he pissed me off I made a huuuuge pillow fort to talk out of and he wasn't allowed on the fort half of the room unless he asked. I don't even remember why I was mad but clearly the fort was the sticking point
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 04:45 PM
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(making a pillow fort between the couch and the coffee table. i brought some cool embroidered cushions and a big blanket for the roof. And a futon-sized cushion for the floor)
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 04:47 PM
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 04:49 PM
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Not really sure what the point of continuing with therapy is now if I don't get to make a pillow fort.

Guess that's my next session all planned out.
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 04:51 PM
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First get angry and then just barricade yourself in

You might even hurl a pillow or two at him-- bonus points. Then you'll have me beat
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 04:54 PM
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I dunno. I'm feeling pretty positive about him today. I might let him into the fort with me and then we can talk about how it makes me feel and stuff...?
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Oh great, gotta add that to the list of ridiculous fantasies now
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 05:12 PM
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Oh I remember why I was mad. He was asking for eye contact and I was really not into it so he got annoyed and insisted. Idiot. He never did that again

My student said they are forty minutes late. Sigh. I hope they don't mind their five minute lesson.

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Old Jun 05, 2017, 05:24 PM
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Got these at goodwill for 2$...wowwew

Couch 142 - Pope Hyginus' Final Resting Place (~Something in Latin~)
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 05:26 PM
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First get angry and then just barricade yourself in

You might even hurl a pillow or two at him-- bonus points. Then you'll have me beat
I've thrown balls on Ts head. He's thrown stuff at me. He let me slap him once. I asked if I could!!!!
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 05:27 PM
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How can u tell if people are lurking???
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Not really sure what the point of continuing with therapy is now if I don't get to make a pillow fort.

Guess that's my next session all planned out.
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Oh great, gotta add that to the list of ridiculous fantasies now
Both of these comments made me laugh out loud!!!
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 05:35 PM
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CFW has a nice ring to it
For a W to F a C doesn't bear thinking about.
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Steve Harvey show says tinder is just for hooking up, not relationships.
He's an expert on that too?
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 05:39 PM
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Okay, I'm having serious T envy right now. I want to build a pillow fort or slap my T. No, instead I cry every session and we talk about where in my body I feel my emotions.
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It rarely has anything to do with an individual or even an individual drug. Again it's about bigger risk and liability. There is no reason you have to agree with it, but as an attorney I would certainly recommend to my clients that they do drug testing and not hire anyone that has drugs showing up. In any sort of a lawsuit with an employee if drugs were present in their system at any time and the employer knew about the employee's propensity -it would not fare well, in any number of situations, for that employer. I have nothing against any drug did anyone wants to use, but I would still advise my clients who are looking to limit risk and liability to test for it and to not hire those who tested positive
Would you advise them to hire a lawyer who was an occasional user?
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 05:43 PM
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Okay, I'm having serious T envy right now. I want to build a pillow fort or slap my T. No, instead I cry every session and we talk about where in my body I feel my emotions.
Sorry I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad Im sorry Couch 142 - Pope Hyginus' Final Resting Place (~Something in Latin~)
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Sorry I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad Im sorry Couch 142 - Pope Hyginus' Final Resting Place (~Something in Latin~)
I was a bit envious too but don't feel bad. I think you have a wonderful T and I am happy for you, I wish mine was that awesome but then I'd feel like he was a friend too, which would make it hard since you are not supposed to go that route with T's apparently...

if it works well for you though, that's great. as long as he helps and supports you. have all the fun you want
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 05:55 PM
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Would you advise them to hire a lawyer who was an occasional user?
It would depend on if the attorney was their employee or not.
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