Do you guys feel angry towards your T?

Yes sometimes I do. Especially with one of my Ts, he can really trigger me that way. I usually tell them when something bothers me and I am aware of it but I refuse to use sessions to fight T vs me excessively as I don't find that particularly helpful and relevant to my everyday life. Well, sometimes it is relevant and when I sense that, I discuss more. But I don't like creating a parallel universe in therapy and pay for dissecting it when things only appear with that T and I don't see a larger pattern.

Recently I have had a couple of sessions where I have been angry/hurt by him. I'm getting better at responding in the moment now with him. I think my T 'hits the nail on the head' sometimes & im not keen to hear it. I want him to think I'm the 'perfect' client, so after I've had a go at him, I feel really guilty. I also think I'm getting better at expressing my anger. I never used to have the words, but I'm gradually learning the words I need to use to express myself.

Yes I have gotten mad at my t. Sometimes she made assumptions that weren't quite right 🐻.

Yes but he brought it on himself by doing something underhanded.