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For those who see more than one T is it awkward to talk about the other? A couple weeks ago I spoke to T about it feeling like I was seeking out a competitor (My degree is in business). She explained it wasn't like that because she does not do EMDR and she honestly thinks it will help me. I emailed her after appointment with 2t she said she was glad I updated her she didn't email me because she wanted me to reach out if I wanted to. But it seems weird..am i worrying to mich?
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That's kind if how I feel...like I'm tattleing on the other. I briefly mentioned it to T and she said it will all be fine. If we run into issues we will talk about it... but still.
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When I was seeing two of them (stopped the second one in January due to teaching schedule and just never started back up regularly) -
I never talked to one about the other. It was not something that I would have found useful nor was it the point of hiring two of them for me.
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the only reason i could ever forsee me having 2 is to get over the attachment to the first lol
i'd be too confused, i think. trying to remember who i told what to etc. i like just the one, although i wish i could see him more than i do |
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I saw three different ts at one point. At present I see two. I see them for different purposes; T1 often asks about what I am doing with T3. I feel free to talk to him about what is going on with T3, including when I am upset with her. I don't talk to T3 about T1 much; partly because what I do with T3 has to do with childhood, partly because I am ashamed of how attached I am to T1.
I don't worry about what I have said to whom. I figure if they need/want more detail they can ask for it. I have not discerned any feeling of competition between them. For me, it is like seeing a GP and a specialist. If I think that either needs to know something about what the other is doing, I just say it. |
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The only reason I am seeing T is foe EMDR. T is not trained for it. So I am seeing 2T specifically foe EMDR we hope I get past the wall T and I have run into a put my trauma.
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I don't exactly have 2. I have a primary T and a psychiatrist I see for therapy once a month. I feel like my T and I stay so down and focused on the issues that it is helpful to pull back and look at what we are doing from a bigger picture from my psyc. Plus it gives me a place to discuss my relationship with my T with a neutral 3rd party. That has been invaluable.
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