Anyone here NOT attached to their therapist?

Hello!
I am still here and pop in and out and still often read your struggles. You have all helped me with my own joirney too.
I haven't been posting due to lack of time and self care reasons but am very glad that others are still finding my posts helpful.
Take care
Moon

Hello Moon!!
So glad to see you on here, even if it is from time to time... I hope that you are well!! : ) : ) : )

I am super attached to T1. EMDR I do not feel I am. I t HI k about my sessions but if something comes up and feeling like I need to reach out and ask for help, T1 is always my go to person. While I like EMDR T enough there is no where the attachment or comfort I have with T1.

I think I am attached. I like my therapist a lot. I am very comfortable talking to him and I think this whole process is easier, not just because I think he's good at what he does, but also because of who (I think) he is as a person. It would be very hard for me to find someone else to work with if things ended with him.

I do get sad sometimes and wish we could be friends, but I fully understand that that can't really happen and I have no intentions or desire to try and make that happen.

I am not attached. I have no idea who she is even, apart from her name, office location and a few personal facts.

I'm not attached, but after battles with transference with a T who didn't handle it well, I'm thrilled with things now. Current T seems like she'd handle attachment or ET much better and may even be actively looking for it since she knows my history (and probably because she's new), but I don't feel anything except relief at having someone using actual tools to help me. She also seems to truly care about everyone (again, new). I don't really attach easily or firmly with anyone except my kids, though, and now I'm wondering if I would benefit from working through some controlled attachment. Can't force it, though.