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#26
Apr 01, 2018, 01:12 PM
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My t has admitted to looking at my fb page.. and says other t’s do it as well. Doesn’t bother me, but he also isn’t bothered that I have looked at his social media pages either.
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#27
Apr 01, 2018, 01:24 PM
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If it is public it is fair game. My fb is set on private and I don’t post often anyways. T is too busy to muck around on Facebook. He’s welcome to it but won’t find much
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#28
Apr 01, 2018, 04:35 PM
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I just decided to see what I could find online for T1 because it is Easter, I am alone and totally bored. Geez. He has his entire wedding video on youtube and him and his wife have a blog.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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#29
Apr 01, 2018, 04:49 PM
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haha
 i would be flattered if my t. googled me. i doubt she would even bother to find any information about any of her clients
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#30
Apr 01, 2018, 04:52 PM
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Also, setting your Facebook to private is not effective. Google can show you how to explore hidden Facebook pages, even deleted ones. Nothing on the net is truly private. Nothing. My favorite quote, "security is a fairy tale we tell ourselves to sleep better at night, and somebody always dies in Grimm's fairy tales." |
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#31
Apr 01, 2018, 05:59 PM
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lol anyone looking at my FB page will just think I'm super obsessed w/ my kid.
Also, you can't see much unless you're my friend. |
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#32
Apr 01, 2018, 06:38 PM
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I know my T can’t find me I’m pretty much hidden unless you are my friend now I am pretty easy to find on Twitter and Instagram but I don’t post anything interesting anyways.
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#33
Apr 01, 2018, 08:50 PM
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My therapist and I are friends on facebook. she just clicked “like” on a few of my posts. I dont care. I dont quite understand what the big deal is?
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#34
Apr 01, 2018, 10:16 PM
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I'm sure some therapists look up clients up on the internet/social media out of curiosity just like a lot or other people. It is technically unethical to befriend clients on social media, however. It can violate terms of confidentiality not to mention potentially cause a slew of other problems. Therapists should be tech savvy enough to know this but I'm always surprised at how clueless some are. Therapy practice Facebook pages turn me off too but a surprising amount of Ts have them.
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#35
Apr 01, 2018, 10:19 PM
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Since my T doesn't like social media (actively dislikes it), and has no social media presence, I am going to guess she has never looked me up online. Even if that weren't true, I can not see a T wanting to look up their clients? Especially if they have busy lives. But, I am not that curious of a person of others. 99% of my FB friends are my friends because they have friended me, and not because I searched them out.
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