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#1
May 04, 2018, 04:06 PM
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I've not been here for a while but I've mentioned before how my relationship towards t became overwhelming and the emails took over a lot of my time etc.
Basically for the last two months this great big wall built between me and t. I don't know if it's me becomung more resentful or T becoming more distant but I don't know what to do.. I feel like there is an elephant in the room and I really don't understand why she never starts the conversation about my feelings for her even though its such a massive issue for me. I've been very very upset about it because the one person I would discuss it with is the person who is the source of the problem! 
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#2
May 04, 2018, 04:16 PM
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I'm sorry this is happening it sounds painful and frustrating.
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May 04, 2018, 04:17 PM
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Many times I have said things to my therapist about what I am hoping to accomplish, and she has asked me several times to verify that what I am asking for is what I actually want. Obviously I don't know anything about your therapy or your therapist, but she may not wish to push her agenda on you.
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May 15, 2018, 12:51 AM
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Sometimes the wall between me and Madame T was due to me being angry with her and not saying so.
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#5
May 15, 2018, 02:57 AM
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So this seems to be my advice a lot but tell her that you feel a wall there. Tell her why you feel it and maybe you guys can work through it together. Maybe even write it all in a note and give it to her at your next session. Sometimes i find that more productive than emailing because i can see my Ts responses to what i wrote and we are forced to deal with whatever it is.
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#6
May 15, 2018, 04:14 PM
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U come off like
It is like this How can we go on Isn't this enough... I'd use conversation starters like this or use a friend tell her about a new interaction but it actually being about her. Maybe certain forms of role playing, it can be frustrating if not use to it but it can be done. |
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May 15, 2018, 04:53 PM
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#8
Jun 11, 2018, 05:26 AM
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I feel Ts ought to make it easy to talk about things like this. But if T doesn't raise it, I'm afraid you are going to have to take a risk.
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