Does your therapist get angry at you?

DP_2017 · Jul 14, 2018, 01:54 PM

I can't imagine a "Good" T would... seems counter productive... they are trained to manage feelings well, so there should be no need to.

No mine has not.... probably annoyed with me at times, but that's normal. Everyone gets annoyed with people somedays.... but angry, no for sure not. I'd tell him off and never return.

Rive1976 · Jul 14, 2018, 07:49 PM

Mine has. I was going through some issues about my meds and mentioned something about when I was little.she said No we are talking about now not then.

RaineD · Jul 14, 2018, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Bozdickens

She’s not a nutritionist. She just lost a lot of weight and kept it off so she thinks everyone should be exactly the same as her. She told me not to talk about it because she didn’t like my eating habits. But she often brought it up. Then yelled at me for responding by saying “I told you not to talk about this.” I tried writing a review on yelp. She found out and called me and told me to remove it. So I did. I just feel guilty about drinking Gatorade when I’m not at a post workout. I try to save them for my break at work. I think I’m a bit dehydrated after 3 hours. At least I like to tell myself. I wish I could rewrite the review as anonymous. Then she would have no proof it was me. I hope to run into her so I could tell her how I feel. I think the only place I would possibly run into her would be at my job. I don’t think it would be appropriate though to say what I need to say.

Okay, this sounds really weird and inappropriate. Not to mention judgmental.

Mountaindewed · Jul 16, 2018, 10:06 PM

Yeah I guess she probably does have issues with food. I had an unhealthy sandwich one time. I told her about it just to make conversation, and she never let it go. For years She constantly brought it up. It almost seemed like she was using it against me. She does have problems.

WishfulThinker66 · Jul 17, 2018, 11:15 AM

Hmmmm? What is the background story here? Do your eating habits have anything to do with your reasons for seeing your T? Are they a sore point with your T? Could it be they are frustrated with repeated poor choices regarding your nutrition? I think if this is the case your T has every reason to express frustration. However, if your eating habits have nothing to do with the purpose you see them I see this as really over the top behaviour - which you need to address. Regardless, ask your T why these drinks, or whatever, are such a source of anger for them.

Incidentally, while I don't agree with your T's behaviour I do agree that Gatorade is one of the worse things you can drink.

Mountaindewed · Jul 17, 2018, 04:53 PM

No I don’t have any issues with food. No eating disorder or anything. I really like food, but I’m basically at a normal weight, and I usually do watch what I’m eating. I don’t binge eat or anything. I consider myself a foodie. She just has issues with everything. The way I dress, the way I act, the way I spend my money. She has an issue with my lifestyle in general.

velcro003 · Jul 17, 2018, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Bozdickens

No I don’t have any issues with food. No eating disorder or anything. I really like food, but I’m basically at a normal weight, and I usually do watch what I’m eating. I don’t binge eat or anything. I consider myself a foodie. She just has issues with everything. The way I dress, the way I act, the way I spend my money. She has an issue with my lifestyle in general.

Sounds like an absolutely terrible T!