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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:30 PM
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I know. CE said it was quiet around these parts when he posted that. Where I am it was like 6:49AM and I was not reading here yet at that time. Now it’s close to 9:30am. But CE is in New Zealand so I think it’s like 1 or 2am there at this time or somehing. Hopefully he’s resting well and getting a good nights sleep.
I am touched that everyone is so supportive about this.
But I don't really expect anyone to get up at 5am just to talk to me!
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:31 PM
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'cause it wasn't. I would tell you guys the same thing:

Una stop licking Artie and play nice!!!!! (5)
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:33 PM
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:33 PM
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How did you make it?

I have two week old peppers and tomatoes in my fridge- what could I do with those? I was supposed to make soup but that didn't happen.

Tomato sauce?
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:35 PM
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I’m afraid it’s part of the dumbing-down of higher education.

Well, at least I’ll finally see “The Haunting.”
We looked at cave drawings when i was in cave school, and we liked it!
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:36 PM
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Double trouble eh?
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:37 PM
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Double trouble eh?
I couldnt think of anything clean to say!

I was dreaming that i used to call Artie on the phone back when she lived on her farm
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:38 PM
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Tomato sauce?
I think I might!

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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:43 PM
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I was so open with some stuff about my T today and am sort of freaking out right now, even though he seemed really caring and understanding throughout it, despite the fact that I felt I wasn't making a whole lot of sense. I'm weirdly comforted by his "I'd never take handshakes away from you" comment when I expressed fear of that. It's really more the way in which he said it than what he said. Like I'm not sure how good a job I'll do writing up this session because so much of it was his tone of voice and body language and how he was looking at me.


So glad I'm seeing him twice this week, even though he's away Thurs. and Fri.
The fear of the handshake being taken away makes perfect sense. I'm glad he's upped his game.

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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:43 PM
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I think I go on Facebook in my sleep. Apparently in the middle of the night-I hit the like button on many posts. (Mind you, I barely go on Facebook during the day)
Spooky!
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:43 PM
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I couldnt think of anything clean to say!

I was dreaming that i used to call Artie on the phone back when she lived on her farm
Must have been a past life, cuz I've never lived on a farm in this one! ☺
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:47 PM
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I found costco chicken tikka masala to be not completely inadequate but it lacks flavor.
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:47 PM
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How did you make it?

I have two week old peppers and tomatoes in my fridge- what could I do with those? I was supposed to make soup but that didn't happen.
I didn't - it's in pouches that you microwave. I want to try making it now, though! Will look for a recipe tonite.
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:49 PM
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I have made this one:

Notification

and this one
Chicken Tikka Masala | Recipes | Food Network UK
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:50 PM
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I found costco chicken tikka masala to be not completely inadequate but it lacks flavor.
The one I got is vegetarian, and to me it was really flavorful, might be just because the spices taste so different from what I'm used to? I didn't see the chicken one.
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:51 PM
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R said I can have a session this week- but by now I'm therapied out and I've already SH'ed enough to not feel anything and to be able to focus again.

Am I right to skip the session that I so desperately wanted before?

But I of that time am no longer the same. I actually had this dream this morning:

It's Christmas time and my dad comes into the house from somewhere. He tells us we're going out somewhere so to get ready. My little sister is 3 and wearing her blue disney princess dress and starts to change. My mother and other sister go and sit outside on the wall- it's snowing. I run upstairs to change my clothes and my brother and I are putting on our shoes. Then he decides to go to sleep instead and says he's not going whilst my mother and sisters are already waiting outside and I can feel the disappointment looking at him.
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:51 PM
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:54 PM
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Oh thank you!

NB: I didn't hug or add any emoticons just for yoooooooooou.)
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:56 PM
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She never said we couldnt yodel...
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:59 PM
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 02:01 PM
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I'll be yodeling while I eat Yodels then.

Couch 175: You've Got Mail....
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 02:01 PM
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She never said we couldnt yodel...
Hehehe you're my partner in crime Una that's what I meant by double trouble!

I got lost to watch "you've got mail" and I'm not getting over that!
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 02:03 PM
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I'm sorry if this is harsh, I really am. However, I feel like I have to respond to this. You cannot raise a child "as if" you are a single mom when you are not, especially when your husband is acting so dysfunctionally. There are several factors to consider. One is finances. Another is how this will affect the child's emotional development. I mean, if they live with him, have him in their life, they will be affected. Imagine the stress of having a father acting like he is constantly about to die on a young child. As an adult, you realize he isn't at death's door, and it's still making you feel suicidal. The effect it would have on a child who might believe the fuss would be very bad. Then when they finally grow to realize it's all in his head, that would do additional damage.
I have no plans to get pregnant while my H is acting this way. And I technically can't get pregnant until I deal with these cysts which will probably take a couple months. He wants to get his sperm frozen so even if he dies, I can have a baby...
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 02:03 PM
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 02:06 PM
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SD: Oh good lord!
Indeed. And for so many different reasons.
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