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LonesomeTonight · Dec 17, 2018 at 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Echos Myron redux

My T has really messed up tonight. We probably shouldn't have had a conversation over email but rule number one of being Echos's T is don't insinuate that you find transference feelings scary, and rule number 2 is don't argue with my feelings when I tell you what they are. He managed to p1ss all over those rules tonight.

I'm so sorry...he should know better. I hope he makes it right...

CantExplain · Dec 17, 2018 at 03:38 PM

I currently have no interest in Madame T. Who needs her.

ScarletPimpernel · Dec 17, 2018 at 04:11 PM

My T just cancelled on me

Dec 17, 2018 at 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel

My T just cancelled on me

Aww Scarlet why did she cancel?

CantExplain · Dec 17, 2018 at 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by atisketatasket

Monsieur T?

I'm not in therapy at the moment and I think that's fine.

ScarletPimpernel · Dec 17, 2018 at 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by whispershadow

Aww Scarlet why did she cancel?

She's sick. But it's been 3 weeks since I last saw her

And not only am I struggling so much, but I'm not secure with T right now. I really needed to see her today. She rescheduled for Thursday, but I'm so upset that I'm thinking of cancelling.

LonesomeTonight · Dec 17, 2018 at 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel

She's sick. But it's been 3 weeks since I last saw her

And not only am I struggling so much, but I'm not secure with T right now. I really needed to see her today. She rescheduled for Thursday, but I'm so upset that I'm thinking of cancelling.

Hugs, Scarlet...I understand your being upset, but I think you should still see her Thursday (assuming she's well enough). With the holidays, support is good. Is she willing to talk on the phone today maybe?

Dec 17, 2018 at 04:45 PM

Aww, I'm sorry scarlet.

Dec 17, 2018 at 04:53 PM

I have a picture of new dog but don’t know how to post a pic from my phone. Anyone?

Echos Myron redux · Dec 17, 2018 at 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Jersey 3

I have a picture of new dog but don’t know how to post a pic from my phone. Anyone?

Are you on tapatalk or in browser? In browser you can click on "manage attachments" and attach it that way from your gallery. Not sure about tapatalk.

Dec 17, 2018 at 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Echos Myron redux

Are you on tapatalk or in browser? In browser you can click on "manage attachments" and attach it that way from your gallery. Not sure about tapatalk.

I’m in a browser. I’ll try it..

Echos Myron redux · Dec 17, 2018 at 05:00 PM

My T emailed and apologised and said he "very much hopes" he will see me on Wednesday (after I said I might not be there). I cried harder at that than at his ****** email. Sigh.

Dec 17, 2018 at 05:07 PM

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If it worked..this is him. We just got in from a walk.

LonesomeTonight · Dec 17, 2018 at 05:09 PM

Aw, so cute, Jersey! Love the floppy ears--the dog we had for 2 days had them (we had to return her to the foster because she freaked D out too much--he found another family).

Dec 17, 2018 at 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight

Aw, so cute, Jersey! Love the floppy ears--the dog we had for 2 days had them (we had to return her to the foster because she freaked D out too much--he found another family).

Thanks. I think he’s kinda cute too. I think he’s Shepherd/lab mix.

NP_Complete · Dec 17, 2018 at 05:19 PM

I second the love of the floppy ears. Mutts are the best.

ScarletPimpernel · Dec 17, 2018 at 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight

Hugs, Scarlet...I understand your being upset, but I think you should still see her Thursday (assuming she's well enough). With the holidays, support is good. Is she willing to talk on the phone today maybe?

Probably not on the phone. If she would just be reassuring, it would help. But she said she doesn't know what would help. Maybe I'll reply to her text to try to get reassurance. Idk. I'm mad at her. We were supposed to talk about my H, what's going to happen with her when I can't afford her, and my depression. None are light topics. But it's been 3 weeks already!

LonesomeTonight · Dec 17, 2018 at 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Jersey 3

Thanks. I think he’s kinda cute too. I think he’s Shepherd/lab mix.

The one we had was shepherd/lab/something else that's shorter.

SlumberKitty · Dec 17, 2018 at 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Jersey 3

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If it worked..this is him. We just got in from a walk.

What a handsome boy!

LonesomeTonight · Dec 17, 2018 at 05:29 PM

Damn it, the floppy ear thing made me think of something with ex-MC (pre-rupture). We got the dog around the time I started seeing current T. I'd talked about the dog's floppy ears. And when I was talking about then-new T to ex-MC, he was like, "Do his ears flop up and down, too?" I said I hadn't noticed, would pay attention next session. (At the time, that made me wonder if he was jealous.)

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CantExplain Big Poppa Member Since Oct 2011 Location: New Zealand Posts: 19,616 (SuperPoster!) 12 19.7k hugs given	Dec 17, 2018 at 03:38 PM #482 I currently have no interest in Madame T. Who needs her. __________________ Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby!

ScarletPimpernel Wise Elder Member Since Nov 2013 Location: US Posts: 8,451 (SuperPoster!) 10 6,532 hugs given	Dec 17, 2018 at 04:11 PM #483 My T just cancelled on me __________________ "Odium became your opium..." ~Epica

Anonymous43207 Guest Posts: n/a	Dec 17, 2018 at 04:45 PM #488 Aww, I'm sorry scarlet.

Anonymous53987 Guest Posts: n/a	Dec 17, 2018 at 04:53 PM #489 I have a picture of new dog but don’t know how to post a pic from my phone. Anyone?

Echos Myron redux Magnate Member Since Apr 2018 Location: UK Posts: 2,165 6 1,836 hugs given	Dec 17, 2018 at 05:00 PM #492 My T emailed and apologised and said he "very much hopes" he will see me on Wednesday (after I said I might not be there). I cried harder at that than at his ****** email. Sigh.

Anonymous53987 Guest Posts: n/a	Dec 17, 2018 at 05:07 PM #493 277B5BC2-805F-47FE-907D-165F87442E7D.jpg If it worked..this is him. We just got in from a walk.

LonesomeTonight Always in This Twilight Member Since Feb 2015 Location: US Posts: 20,993 (SuperPoster!) 9 75.3k hugs given	Dec 17, 2018 at 05:09 PM #494 Aw, so cute, Jersey! Love the floppy ears--the dog we had for 2 days had them (we had to return her to the foster because she freaked D out too much--he found another family).

NP_Complete Grand Magnate Member Since Feb 2017 Location: the upside down Posts: 3,836 7 6,374 hugs given	Dec 17, 2018 at 05:19 PM #496 I second the love of the floppy ears. Mutts are the best.