Couch 184: Welcome to Zanzibar!

LostOnTheTrail · Dec 22, 2018, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Lemoncake

When do you next see R?

I tend to also do this a lot, so my weight does tend to yo-you a bit. I was eating because of stress even though I wasn't hungry. It sounds dumb, but I find chewing gum helpful as it gave my mouth something to do.Do you know what your triggers are?

I think I eat the things I don't want to feel. I'm harbouring anger at the moment, without really knowing where the heck it's come from. I'd say it's good to feel something, but this is rough. My next appointment is the 10th of January. I can't stand gum, but mints work for me.

atisketatasket · Dec 22, 2018, 01:17 PM

I’m really sorry, Jersey.

Dec 22, 2018, 01:29 PM

I'm so sorry Jersey

88Butterfly88 · Dec 22, 2018, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Jersey 3

Got in a big fight with H. He left. It’s over.

Dec 22, 2018, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Lemoncake

I'm sorry Jersey.

Do you have anyone to support you right now, a friend you could call?

I went to my moms to chill out for a bit but I’m back home because I have to work tonight.

Dec 22, 2018, 02:39 PM

I have to compose myself so I can go to work later. I’m going to go find some distractions.

Dec 22, 2018, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Jersey 3

I have to compose myself so I can go to work later. I’m going to go find some distractions.

Much love to you, Jersey

Dec 22, 2018, 04:02 PM

Ugh I'm as stressed as hell, christmas can **** off already.

88Butterfly88 · Dec 22, 2018, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by whispershadow

Ugh I'm as stressed as hell, christmas can **** off already.

It'll be over soon.

Echos Myron redux · Dec 22, 2018, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Jersey 3

Got in a big fight with H. He left. It’s over.

Hugs Jersey.

SalingerEsme · Dec 22, 2018, 04:14 PM

How did the vet appointment go? What a rough day.

Dec 22, 2018, 04:26 PM

Another 60 hour work week done. I'm gonna take a shower then a nap then go to a lighted labyrinth walk this evening.

atisketatasket · Dec 22, 2018, 04:41 PM

Somehow 2ex got an email past my filters. It’s ostensibly business but he manages to get in some swipes (“I hope your lack of response means you’re ignoring me, not that you’ve blocked me”). And of course he claims to need my address.

I forwarded it to my lawyer to deal with. But I’m really upset.

I told my mother and sister, with predictable results. Sister all practical, mother all why are you upset.

Dec 22, 2018, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by atisketatasket

Somehow 2ex got an email past my filters. It’s ostensibly business but he manages to get in some swipes (“I hope your lack of response means you’re ignoring me, not that you’ve blocked me”).

I forwarded it to my lawyer to deal with. But I’m really upset.

I told my mother and sister, with predictable results. Sister all practical, mother all why are you upset.

Are you able to block him, tistet?

WarmFuzzySocks · Dec 22, 2018, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by atisketatasket

Somehow 2ex got an email past my filters. It’s ostensibly business but he manages to get in some swipes (“I hope your lack of response means you’re ignoring me, not that you’ve blocked me”). And of course he claims to need my address.

I forwarded it to my lawyer to deal with. But I’m really upset.

I told my mother and sister, with predictable results. Sister all practical, mother all why are you upset.

UGH. Of course it's upsetting. Plus what he wrote doesn't even make sense. Blocking someone IS ignoring. That is the sole purpose. It doesn't make a difference how you do the ignoring.

What a jackass.

I'm sorry.

atisketatasket · Dec 22, 2018, 04:56 PM

It’s so stupid. I’m suddenly terrified of him all over again.

I did have him blocked. I don’t know how he got around the filters.

Dec 22, 2018, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by atisketatasket

It’s so stupid. I’m suddenly terrified of him all over again.

I did have him blocked. I don’t know how he got around the filters.

It's not stupid

downandlonely · Dec 22, 2018, 05:00 PM

Sorry tisket.

Can you change your email address?

unaluna · Dec 22, 2018, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by atisketatasket

It’s so stupid. I’m suddenly terrified of him all over again.

I did have him blocked. I don’t know how he got around the filters.

Im sorry but people are the worst developers ever these days. The same mistakes just keep getting made. They convert to a new system and skip the last record of each loop or something. Its ridiculous. And their attitude is oh well.

Dec 22, 2018, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by atisketatasket

It’s so stupid. I’m suddenly terrified of him all over again.

I did have him blocked. I don’t know how he got around the filters.

I’m so sorry. I’m glad you sent it to your lawyer instead of playing into him. I hope one day he realizes you aren’t going to play into his games.

Dec 22, 2018, 06:16 PM

Inhale/exhale. I have to leave for work in 30 minutes. I’m somewhat holding it together but my eyes are swollen like golf balls from crying all day and I’m visably upset. H came home and spoke with me-he said more often than not I make him feel like crap. I told him one thing I don’t let him see is how much I hate myself.
Okay..I can’t do this right now..I can’t tell the story right now..I’m starting to cry again.
Just breathe Jersey, breathe.

88Butterfly88 · Dec 22, 2018, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Jersey 3

Inhale/exhale. I have to leave for work in 30 minutes. I’m somewhat holding it together but my eyes are swollen like golf balls from crying all day and I’m visably upset. H came home and spoke with me-he said more often than not I make him feel like crap. I told him one thing I don’t let him see is how much I hate myself.
Okay..I can’t do this right now..I can’t tell the story right now..I’m starting to cry again.
Just breathe Jersey, breathe.