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Magnate
Member Since Jul 2013
Location: United States
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May 07, 2019 at 06:12 PM
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All I want is contact with him.....anything.....any response. I have done everything he has said for me to do when I feel like this. Garden...which I spend from 9am to 1pm getting dirt and plants and planting and now my back hurts. Cook....he says to cook as I like to cook. I even watched a stupid movie on Amazon prime. Did the laundry. My husband is away all week and on Monday I take him to have cancer tumors removed from his bladder and we find out what stage the cancer is at. I am full of worry and anxiety.
I do not want comfort from anyone else. I want it from him as I see him a surrogate parent and I feel home sick. I have already tried 7 cups of tea, I went on to the crisis prevention website but felt I did not belong there. Now I just want to take something to numb me but I do not have anything and I do not want to drink. __________________ When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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