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#181
It was rough. We had a serious period of misattunement because he didn't hear what I said and it happened to be the most important part. He kept saying he still didn't understand what had happened when I had just told him and I got extremely flustered and my walls went up. Finally, we got on the same page that he hadn't heard that one phrase, but my walls were fully up at that point so I'm still not sure how I feel about all this.
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Grand Magnate
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#182
Okay, I'm talking about
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He said that they're taught not to label things like this because the client may not see it that way. He said that the first time you tell someone this kind of thing, it's important how the therapist reacts. (I'm paraphrasing with great liberty because my mind was a jumble today.) He said that if it goes wrong, the client can feel like the thing isn't important. (I wish I could remember what he actually said here because I feel like it's important.) I told him that, yeah, when I first told him, I felt like he didn't think it was that big of a deal. I hope that doesn't make him feel bad. We barely knew each other back then, and it had an impact, but I'm not telling him all this to blame him. |
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#183
QM - you deserve a gluten free cinnamon roll for that! Holy moly!
I once told my mother she was being a ***** (talking about the way she was acting towards her gf), which i didnt think i was outright CALLING her a *****? I thought there was a semantic difference? But she didnt see it that way, unfortunately! But boy! I bet that put some hair on your chest! An expression that means, Like, made a man out of you. But its ALWAYS been one of my personal favorite expressions - truth will out! |
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#184
New cat likes gf peach pie.
She also feels it unfair junior cat gets to be a measure of wealth. So she is now a measure of weight. A new cat is 8.5 lbs. So a ton is 235.29 new cats. I weigh about 17 1/2 new cats. Etc. |
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#185
Hi QM
Could I have some pocketriders for my meeting tomorrow with my gp and exT? It's in about 16 hours and I noticed I have started hyperventilating. Thanks I don't know what he means by support structures so I guess we will see. I have already told him I don't think they will be helpful. |
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#186
Thanks folks. I have given myself a headache because i was clenching my teeth so hard, but I didn't even notice. I can't even make myself go to my art class even though we are learning inks tonight. And inking a cockatoo my favourite bird.
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#187
I'll hop in, bcm. Sorry you've got a headache.
I'm laying here unable to sleep again. Melatonin allowed about 4-5 hours of sleep but now I'm awake again and can't shut off my stupid brain and it's 1 am here. I wish I could take a warm bath or go swimming but I'm not allowed yet. Maybe I'll just get up and cook a frozen pizza. I don't know what to do with myself when I can't sleep and can't use my normal sleep inducers. |
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#188
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So I think that must just be how they're trained. I'm sorry it was such a difficult session (the one yesterday). |
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#190
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#194
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At the massage place I go to they wet a towel in hot water and it feels really nice just on the skin. Maybe you could try that as a bath alternative? Perhaps use to the time to read if you can. __________________ |
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#198
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#199
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#200
Thank you for the laugh, ATAT.
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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