I dreamt of T in his underwear-- and I told him!

Hey everyone. I haven't been posting much lately because of the depression, but I couldn't let this one get away without sharing it with my PC friends.

On Sunday, I took a nap and had a dream that T and I were having a session in a bedroom. The only thing he was wearing was white boxer shorts. He was doing exercises for his back and then he decided to lay down on the bed. I laid down next to him and he put his arms around me and said, "I know you need to be held." I became very stiff and did not want to touch him-- did not even want to put my hand on his arm-- because I thought I was being inappropriate. I also thought that if I put my hand on him, the holding would stop and I wanted it to continue. Then I began to get scared that he was going to try to go further with me, rather than just holding. Another part of me wanted to. Then the dream switched locations and I was in a livingroom with my mom and I was worried about my dad because he was not home yet. I called my dad on his cell and he said he was almost home. I asked my mom who she was on the phone with and she said, "the lady I went to the mall with" and then I got mad at her. Then I woke up.

So with three minutes left to the session today, I tell T the entire dream, leaving out the part about him being in his underwear. Then I said, "Um, I left out one important part. You weren't wearing what you usually wear." He asks, "What was I wearing?" And I go, "White boxer shorts-- with nothing else!!!"

OMG, I was dying. So of course we had no time to process the dream. We will do that on Saturday, I guess. So then I am gathering my stuff, getting ready to leave, and T looks at me and goes, "Well, I still have all my clothes on."

Damn but you're brave. Always love hearing about you and your T. I'm sorry the depression is getting you down. That really sucks.

I wonder if your T looks like the picture I have of him in my mind.

Sidony

I wish I was as brave as you! I avoid everything!

I'm sure that what you said won't shock your T by any means. As you probably know, he's most likely heard MUCH more "risque" kinds of dreams about him in the past! I will be interested to hear what happens after you get a chance to process with him about the dream.

I think it's funny that he said he was still dressed!

oh pinky dinky... you're a funny girl.

the one liners of his are pretty good

i still say that you both should be grateful it wasn't a thong!

i bite my lip, afraid of having a dream like that.. or worse. Oh god. No idea how to process that.

love ya sweetie

OMG, I called T this morning and he called me back a little while ago...

We were talking about me staying in the present and he said, "Why don't you write down that dream?"

I told him I already did, right after I had it.

He goes, "... Boxer shorts???"

And I said, "That was bad wasn't it?"

And we both started laughing and he said, "We're gonna have to wait until Saturday to talk about that one."

Maybe you can ask him that age old, all important question, "boxers or briefs?" We already know what you want the answer to be.

Interesting the "boxer" type and then the conflict between your needing to be held and feeling he was inappropriate and wanting/not wanting him to go further, etc. Even your Dad being almost home and your mom being on the phone with someone you didn't want her to be on the phone with. You've got an awful lot of "tension" going on in this dream, don't you? Nothing quite gets resolved.

I dream about myself in my underwear all the time....what does that say about me?

Hey Pink,

Did he look anything like this in the dream?

Pink how funny!!!

I like the 'boxer shorts?' question too...I haven't been on much either but I'm out of town...I'm sorry you aren't feeling well.

Take care

I heard that dreaming of a man in boxers meant that you are going to unexpectedly receive a huge amount of $$$ ... !!!

Consequently, I heard that it means that I want to %#@&#! my therapist!!!

By the way, how did this thread get dug up? It was from quite awhile ago.

sometimes I find a pair of underwear that I lost a few months back.....maybe this is how this thread got dug up too

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sometimes I find a pair of underwear that I lost a few months back.....maybe this is how this thread got dug up too

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Unbelievable. My husband lost two pairs of underwear over the last year and we find it so hilarious. Hopefully they were turn up like yours did, lol. Except I think one pair went missing in Washington D.C. If anyone in that area sees a pair of greenish underwear, please PM me for my address, hahaha

my dad once found a pair of mine - wrapped around the washing machine motor! and it was a long time after i had left home.. weird eh? The machine had stopped working and they took apart the thing as a last ditch effort to save it. Once my underwear was removed, everything worked right (and yes, i am very aware of how that sentence sounds.. but that is exactly what happened!)

maybe your hubby's ended up in the car's fanbelt?

i always wondered about the quantity of singular shoes on roadsides.. a prank, sure, accounts for one or two.. but i see them a lot. What could possibly explain this? How many pranks could be happening on the same stretch of highway? Isn't the prank supposed to be throwing a pair of shoes over some highway sign?

My pdoc dreams aren't exciting like yours. Last night I dreamed that his office called me and said, "We don't take Discover Card anymore. You'll have to pay with Visa or Master Card." What the heck does that mean???

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Well if they werent' "greenish" before I'm sure they are by now....ewwwwwwww....(kidding)