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Old Jan 11, 2008, 01:58 PM
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I'm sitting at my desk pretending to work and then my phone rings. I saw that it was him and figured he was cancelling the tomorrow's appointment.

"Hi. I just wanted to see how you are doing today."

What??

We talked about how I feel completely ungrounded-- how I feel as though I am going to through motions and I'm not even connected to myself.

I said to him, "Um, you just called. I didn't leave you a message, but you called."

And he said, "Well, based on talking to you the last couple of days I know how things have been so I wanted to see how you are today. I want you to know that I have been thinking about your situation and that I want to see you tomorrow."

I'm crying in my office because I feel so awful but I do love him very much again. Why does he make it so hard to hate him for extended periods of time?

Damn, I love him.

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Old Jan 11, 2008, 03:21 PM
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Well I guess you know now that he does occasionally think about you outside of your sessions.
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Old Jan 11, 2008, 04:29 PM
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I think you know that we love him too (even though we are jealous) He just called out of the blue. I'm wondering if now would be a good time to take off all of that armour. You must be getting very hot!!

tulips He just called out of the blue.
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Old Jan 11, 2008, 04:33 PM
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pinksoil, what a nice surprise!

yes, like tulips said in her great post, we love him too.

s'pose if we all came there he'd do group with us?! He just called out of the blue.
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Old Jan 11, 2008, 04:44 PM
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That is SO awesome.

I have always had the wish that my T would call me JUST to see how I was and that it wasn't just a return phone call.
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Old Jan 11, 2008, 06:56 PM
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This is awesome, Pink! Success! Your T makes me feel so warm and cozy.

Well, my T refuses to say that he thinks about me in between sessions (he needs a stern talking-to by your T!). So, I thought I might try a little psychology on him as an experiment. I'm going to point to something on the wall or on the couch that catches one's eye. I'm going to look at it and say, T do you see that? Whatever you do, DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT think of me when you look at it. Psychological theory says that he will. LOL We'll see.

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Old Jan 11, 2008, 10:07 PM
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He better plan on doing this everyday. Twice per day. I want calls to say good morning. Calls to say goodnight. Ugh, sometimes when a T does such a good thing it's hard cause you want it all the time, you know?
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Old Jan 11, 2008, 11:47 PM
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I think you two should have Nextels with Direct Talk.

And he should beep you whenever he is changing location so your object constancy issues are dealt with appropriately.


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Old Jan 12, 2008, 12:18 AM
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My T did that for me, twice. Both times the day before session. The first time i was able to answer. The conversation was about 5 minutes long. The second time i was at work and she left a message, "just wanted to see how your weekend went. I have you in for tomorrow so i'll see you then."

Now, i can barely get her to return emails. I feel like she cared more then or something. Its something i really wish she would do again but is not something i can ASK her to do, because then that will defeat the purpose. Sorry, this topic has been a sore spot for me for awhile now...

but i'm happy T called you out of the blue. It feels amazing, i know.
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Old Jan 12, 2008, 01:27 AM
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awwww pink.. that is so wonderfully sweet. Amazingly sweet. You see? Someone does see you as the worthwhile person that you are.

can you imagine the group session? all of us just staring at him? people crying.. people wanting autographs... throwing their panties.. i mean boxers He just called out of the blue.
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