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This afternoon I took a nap and had the following dream:
I walked into T's office and smelled %#@&#!. I looked at the bottom of my shoe because I thought it was me. Then I realized it was his %#@&#!, not mine. Yeah. My power is returning. Woo hoo!!!!!!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
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![]() take care mel |
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Wow. What a dream!.. lol
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hahahahaha... omg... laughing outloud. Love it. (and the super sister avatar, even if i can't quite pick out what it says) i can't wait until you tell him this.
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LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL
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![]() Just returned from therapy. No chance to discuss the dream. Went into other details about the rupture and we keep traveling in circles. I think the rupture might have split wide open. I have cancelled my next session this week because I need to reclaim myself. What a mess. I did not do anything wrong. I now understand so much and so little.
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Now if thou would'st When all have given him o'er From death to life Thou might'st him yet recover -- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631 |
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I don't understand why you canceled? Seems like when there is a rupture in a relationship, the only way it can heal is with time and attention. Sometimes the hardest sessions to endure are those involving repairing the relationship. They are also the most rewarding when you get to the other side.
I know the circle dance. Been there. But the work that goes into repairing the hurt makes it worth the fight. |
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Izzy,
The relationship -- loaded with heavy transference -- felt abusive because of the transference, circumstance, his ineptness at times, and my past trauma experience. I know you don't understand. It's okay. Peace
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Sister,
Just wanted to say I hope your hanging in there. Sounds like a very tough situation to deal with.
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