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Old May 22, 2024, 07:17 PM
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That going through unlocked cars happens all the time out here. There are weekly discussions on NextDoor on whether it is better to lock or not to lock. The not-lockers claim it saves them from getting their windows broken. But the riffled almost always forgot to lock.

Im sorry that happened to you.

Would motion-sensitive lights help?
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Old May 22, 2024, 08:23 PM
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We have people using some electronic thing to unlock cars if your fob is near enough that they can steal the signal - I have a garage but live in an urban neighborhood that is old so I have a tiny garage but my partner has to park on the street and my friends who live in the neighborhood do too so I got a bunch of faraday bags and they all now keep their fob in it when at home.

I know some criminal defense attorneys who suffered burglaries and while they don't blink at representing murderers, etc, they will not take on a burglar because of the feeling of violation that having your home invaded creates.
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Old May 23, 2024, 09:41 AM
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I’ve been binge watching the remake of interview with a vampire. Such a toxic relationship Louis and Les had.

His French accent was cute.
i love that whole anne rice book series. i didn't know there was a remake of the movie? i see there's a series now?? wow. I simply loved brad pitt as louis in the movie, don't think i would want anyone else in that role.

I think my favorite from the movie though HAS to be Antonio Banderas as Armand.

I also really like her series about the Mayfair Witches.
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Old May 23, 2024, 10:24 AM
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Hey LT - you said something about Dr T's couch and it reminded me of this. One time L mentioned getting a new couch. I had an immediate reaction before I could stop myself and said "nooooo! this couch is an old friend!" It's kinda funny as she has always had a plain white cover over it, so I have no idea what the actual couch looks like, and if a new one was similar enough in height and stuff, with the same cover, I'd never know but still... I reacted. I totally get it.
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Old May 23, 2024, 10:48 AM
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Anne Rice also wrote under a couple of pseudonyms. During the Rosie O'Donnell era - RD and Dan Ackroyd were in Exit to Eden - a movie based on one of Rice's s and m novels.
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Old May 23, 2024, 12:01 PM
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omg yes i have the "Beauty" series under A.N. Roquelaure too and loved them. Heh. how could i forget.
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Old May 23, 2024, 12:01 PM
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I have become surprisingly good with houseplants. Much easier to care for than human relationships - simple needs until overcome by pestilence. Hmm, maybe more similar than I thought ...
What kind of pests are your plants getting?
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Old May 23, 2024, 12:13 PM
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i love that whole anne rice book series. i didn't know there was a remake of the movie? i see there's a series now?? wow. I simply loved brad pitt as louis in the movie, don't think i would want anyone else in that role.

I think my favorite from the movie though HAS to be Antonio Banderas as Armand.

I also really like her series about the Mayfair Witches.
I didn’t know it was originally a book.

Lestat is soooo dreamy. I loved the New Orleans 1910 fashion too. You’ll know it when he walks on screen : “ I love you, Louis. You are loved. I send my love to you, and you send it back round to me.” *swoons*

I didn’t like the new Armand though- he just annoyed me every time he was there. He didn’t seem like the love of Louis’s life. Maybe just because it was stable and minus the passionate hysteria.

Just a warning though as it is a vampire series, it’s very gruesome and it has too many sex scenes.
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Old May 23, 2024, 01:17 PM
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Hey LT - you said something about Dr T's couch and it reminded me of this. One time L mentioned getting a new couch. I had an immediate reaction before I could stop myself and said "nooooo! this couch is an old friend!" It's kinda funny as she has always had a plain white cover over it, so I have no idea what the actual couch looks like, and if a new one was similar enough in height and stuff, with the same cover, I'd never know but still... I reacted. I totally get it.
OK, that makes me feel a bit better! It is funny that she could have just switched it out, though I imagine if she got a new one, she might not have had a cover on it.

I do think part of it for me is that, when he first started seeing clients in person after the pandemic, in early 2022 (well, and for a few weeks in 2021), I had to sit in the chair across the room to be a safer distance (we didn't mask). I think it was 8-10 feet away maybe (I am horrible at distance). It was a long time until he let me sit on the side of the couch where I sit (sat?), which is maybe 4 or 5 feet from him.

I think I asked to sit there during a particularly emotional session regarding D, then he said it was OK if I just kept sitting there from then on. So I guess this takes me back to that time. Though he said he'd either move the chairs or else move *his* chair closer once the couch is gone.

It occurs to me that with the smaller new office, maybe some clients who prefer to sit further away will feel uncomfortable with less space.
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Old May 23, 2024, 01:20 PM
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I sort of wish I'd said good-bye to the couch, though I felt awkward enough taking a bunch of photos of everything.


I do hope he gets different waiting room furniture. It's wicker, and it just annoys me, creaking if you move. He said at one point that he was trying to go with an outdoors theme. I'd figured he got them on sale somewhere! Oh, I guess I'll need to find "my spot" in the new waiting room, too (not till late next month). There's a particular seat I prefer in this one, and he'll be like, "Oh, you got your spot!" sometimes when he retrieves me. Hm, maybe next time I'm in the waiting room and it's unoccupied, I'll take a few pics of that, too. Though I typically only spend a few minutes there, as I wait in my car if I get there early, and he's generally very punctual.
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Old May 23, 2024, 01:24 PM
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We have people using some electronic thing to unlock cars if your fob is near enough that they can steal the signal - I have a garage but live in an urban neighborhood that is old so I have a tiny garage but my partner has to park on the street and my friends who live in the neighborhood do too so I got a bunch of faraday bags and they all now keep their fob in it when at home.

I know some criminal defense attorneys who suffered burglaries and while they don't blink at representing murderers, etc, they will not take on a burglar because of the feeling of violation that having your home invaded creates.

Oh, that's scary about the electronic unlocking thing. Do those bags block the signal?

That's interesting about the attorneys not taking on burglars. My car felt violating enough--I'm sure my home would feel much worse. Many years ago, friends had their house broken into while they were on vacation, and they were really upset by it (they did steal some stuff, mainly electronics, I think).
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Old May 23, 2024, 02:19 PM
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Anne Rice was not my kind of writer - I like happier/wittier writers but my person taught a class where she used one or two Rice gothic novels (not the s+m ones -the vampire ones). I only know about the beauty ones because after seeing the (not good but for me -not scary and reasonably okay to play in the background) ODonnell/Ackroyd movie - I thought I might finally enjoy an anne rice novel. I was wrong.
It was not quite as awful as trying to read the Gregory Maguire novel that the broadway show Wicked was based on (so loosely about all they have in common is a green protagonist).
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Oh, that's scary about the electronic unlocking thing. Do those bags block the signal?

That's interesting about the attorneys not taking on burglars. My car felt violating enough--I'm sure my home would feel much worse. Many years ago, friends had their house broken into while they were on vacation, and they were really upset by it (they did steal some stuff, mainly electronics, I think).
Yes -the bags block the signal - I got mine off of amazon. Aluminum foil works as well from what I have heard - we just use a bag
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Tin foil? As in hats? That’s why no one has ever stolen ex-hankster’s brain!
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Old May 23, 2024, 05:31 PM
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Old May 23, 2024, 07:00 PM
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another meeting today at work about our upcoming change that's happening on June 1. Well, this is the first part of a larger change. We don't yet know when the 2nd part will be happening. It's going to be... interesting, I'll say that!
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I'm enjoying (in a weird way) channeling Poe lately. Today my poem for the challenge used a line from The Raven as my first line, and I played with the pattern he used and changed it up a little for mine. I say "in a weird way" because his stuff can be dark... the first 2 poems of his I borrowed from were very dark... I tapped into my shadow to write my poems and am kinda proud of them. I think I understand finally what L was always on about, the getting to know my shadow thing. 'Tis a handy bugger of a creative partner.
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Old May 23, 2024, 11:22 PM
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Tin foil? As in hats? That’s why no one has ever stolen ex-hankster’s brain!
Yes but can we be certain someone hasn't tampered with it?
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When I was getting my undergraduate, we heard tales from a professor about a CS grad student who had some sort of mental breakdown and had his apartment windows covered in foil. Funny because it's so cliche, but sad because that's a person.
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Old May 24, 2024, 05:36 AM
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I'm enjoying (in a weird way) channeling Poe lately. Today my poem for the challenge used a line from The Raven as my first line, and I played with the pattern he used and changed it up a little for mine. I say "in a weird way" because his stuff can be dark... the first 2 poems of his I borrowed from were very dark... I tapped into my shadow to write my poems and am kinda proud of them. I think I understand finally what L was always on about, the getting to know my shadow thing. 'Tis a handy bugger of a creative partner.

Oh, that sounds interesting! I like Poe. In middle school, we had an English teacher whose last name was a cow breed, which is something she embraced. We had a Poe unit, and we each wrote parodies of Poe stories or poems with a "cow" in them. So I did "Cow's Bell Lee" instead of Annabel Lee. Like "It was many and many a year ago in a pasture by the sea..." I know someone did "The Cow" instead of "The Raven." She was a lot of fun.
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When I was getting my undergraduate, we heard tales from a professor about a CS grad student who had some sort of mental breakdown and had his apartment windows covered in foil. Funny because it's so cliche, but sad because that's a person.
That was and perhaps still is a television plot device.
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Yes but can we be certain someone hasn't tampered with it?
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