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Oct 11, 2008, 08:55 PM
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I sent him three emails.
I left him a msg. on Wednesday night to tell him that two of the emails were waiting for him. Finally, today, I gave in and left him a message asking him to call me. So far, nothing. No response to the emails. No phone call. I need my T.  Where is he?? 
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Oct 11, 2008, 09:17 PM
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=( I'm sorry pinky.
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Oct 11, 2008, 11:14 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((pink)))))))))))))))))))))) I am sorry he hasn't called yet. Maybe he is can't get cell service where he is? I hope he calls soon.
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Oct 12, 2008, 04:29 AM
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((((((((Pinksoil)))))))))
You will hear from him. It's okay, sister. He's probably in the bathroom. Take care of you and meanwhile keep posting, cause we will hold you up till you hear from him.  
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Oct 12, 2008, 06:14 AM
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When my T has not immediately responded to me, I sometimes thought she was choosing to ignore me because she does not care about me and I am not worth her time. Later, I always found out that she got back with me as soon as she possibly could given the other things going on in her life. I am not saying that is how you feel--just what I have experienced.
It is tough when we place so much trust in our T and make them so important to us that we sometimes "need" them, but then they are not always immediately available to us. I hope your T gets back to you soon. Hang in there. If it helps, keep writing the emails. Even if you don't send all of them, it might help to just write them. It makes me feel a little connected to my T when I write her.
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Oct 12, 2008, 06:17 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((( pink ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))!!!!!
This stinks. "Where is he?" is right! I'm sure DePressMe is right, that he will call or write back as soon as he can. But the waiting game just stinks. I'm sorry you can't get the support you need right now. Lean on us, if you can.
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#7
Oct 12, 2008, 09:38 AM
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I think he is in the bathroom too.
He has been there a long time.
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Oct 12, 2008, 11:34 AM
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So was my dad. He died in the bathroom. Hopefully T made it out.
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Oct 12, 2008, 01:12 PM
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((((Pink))))
This may not be relevant, and if not, ignore me. In 2001 and 02 there were a series of deaths around me all around the same time of my initial friend in August. First him, then a month later 9/11, then a year nearly to the date of him was a co-worker i was close to. I had just cut my hair short and permed it and I saw her staring at me out the window trying to figure out who i was. I was pleased - and thought I'd see her later. Not only did I not see her, she died that night. Soon after that, (this is the related part) i saw my mentor in much the same way - far away, down the hall, looking almost past me. I couldn't catch up with her, and she left. I was frantic that this would be just like my co-worker. I called, no answer. I couldn't reach her for several days (which, actually happened with me and my friend, too). When I did, i explained and she had us meet for lunch to show me she was fine and to break the pattern. But it was rough going there for a bit. The point of all this is to hopefully ease your mind - t usually gets back to you, but this time there is a reason, and though it is keeping him from you, it will all be explained, soon. Breathe....
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Oct 12, 2008, 02:14 PM
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I haven't heard from him yet... this really hurts because I am feeling separation from many of those around me, including T. It just hurts a lot.
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Oct 12, 2008, 02:17 PM
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Oct 12, 2008, 02:18 PM
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Oct 12, 2008, 02:21 PM
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Oct 12, 2008, 02:25 PM
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LOL
WHICH ONE IS YOUR T PINK? THE HEAD SCRATCH OR THE CHILI?
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Oct 12, 2008, 02:26 PM
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Miss, didn't you tell me your T wears a green streamer on his head and puts on the Mexican Hat Dance when he makes a correct interpretation?
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Oct 12, 2008, 02:41 PM
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It likely doesn't help to hear this but there must be a very good reason; I am sure he is not purposely ignoring you and that he will have a good explanation.The only thing you can do is let it all out at your next appt if you don't hear by then, hopefully you will. just try to be strong until then.
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Oct 12, 2008, 02:46 PM
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:mexican:
Here he is now!
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Oct 13, 2008, 11:49 AM
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anything yet????
bad ash... bad bad ash. go sit in the corner and think about what you did. would it help to think about sweet you-know-who on rye? think deity.   you with all my heart sweet cake.
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#19
Oct 13, 2008, 07:11 PM
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He called this morning. If the phone call was any shorter, it would have been non-existant. Oh well. I'll see him on Wednesday. I asked him if he didn't call back because my neediness had exceeded the limit. He said he didn't call back because "it was late." It was late for two entire days? I left the message on Saturday afternoon. Whatever. At this point I'll take whatever I can get.
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Oct 13, 2008, 07:21 PM
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I am so glad he called . I think my neediness HAS exceeded the limit with my T, so I'm glad yours hasn't with your T! BTW, craphead was an apt term for not calling after your attempts. He's so selfish! (LOL) Here we are trying to call and comfort them, we're being so selfless, and this is what we get. Pshaw! I hope you start feeling better soon!
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Oct 13, 2008, 07:55 PM
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He did add, "Call me or write me anytime between now and Wednesday," so I guess I have to give him points for that.
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Oct 13, 2008, 08:40 PM
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I'm glad he called, pink, even though he was still kind of a craphead about it.
Hang on...Wednesday will be here soon...
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Oct 15, 2008, 04:12 PM
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