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Nov 10, 2008, 07:33 PM
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I want to cry. I want to cry my eyes out like a baby. I want to go to bed now at 7:30 pm and stay there for ten hours. My therapy is getting so close to my heart and my core. I am getting close to myself and tonight T was so close to me. He was so right there with me today. His empathy was soft and his interpretations spot on. I was able to tell him about my shame. I find this kindness really hard to accept. I am not accustomed to anyone being there. I have held these parts of me apart and separate and hidden for most of my life.
OMG THE TRANSFERENCE IS SO INTENSE I WOULD WALK ON COALS FOR HIM!!! Oy. 
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Nov 10, 2008, 07:35 PM
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I'm so happy for you, that you're making progress in your therapy, that's wonderful
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Nov 10, 2008, 08:15 PM
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Sounds like it was a wonderful, connected session. I'm glad your T was able to be right there with you.
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Nov 10, 2008, 09:38 PM
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(((((((((((((((((Miss C)))))))))))))))))))))))) It feels so good to be connected.
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Nov 10, 2008, 09:49 PM
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Sounds really intense...shame is a tough on to share.
Your mention of transference makes me feel like I am ready for another thread about it.
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Nov 10, 2008, 09:50 PM
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Go for it. I'll jump in! (Yeah it was intense)
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Nov 11, 2008, 12:17 AM
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 Wow. Seriously, I can sort of feel the intensity of your feelings just from your post even though it is basically impossible to convey such deep emotion with words. Moments like those go so much deeper than words. Sounds like total validation-- the parts of yourself that were hidden are now coming out because you trust him-- and he's responding by being gentle and caring. We love your T. Yes we do. |
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Nov 11, 2008, 02:03 AM
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Your intensity moved me to tears........
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Nov 11, 2008, 06:45 AM
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Nov 11, 2008, 06:54 AM
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Pink,
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Nov 11, 2008, 06:55 AM
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Nov 11, 2008, 10:00 AM
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Nov 11, 2008, 10:24 AM
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I understand how precious such times are. It feels that you want to savour them forever.
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Nov 13, 2008, 02:03 PM
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"I find this kindness really hard to accept."
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Why should we find it easy to believe that this person who we sit across from once or twice per week values or validates us in such a way? Most of us don't even validate ourselves-- it is difficult and strange to receive someone else's validation. |
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Nov 13, 2008, 08:09 PM
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Hey, yeah.
Thanks Pink, good explanation. Sannah said: Quote:
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Sigh, but it's really good to experience now!
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