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Feb 18, 2009, 04:07 AM
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I called my T and said I'm not coming back (she was away for 3 weeks and I had to decide during that time if I want to see her or not). I feel strange now. And I'm about to zone out. Can't let that happen because i'm at work now. Sorry, just ranting.
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Feb 18, 2009, 04:11 AM
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If so, were you not ready to quit? Are you going to see another T instead? Rant away! 
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#3
Feb 18, 2009, 04:48 AM
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I dont know if I'm upset, i'm not good at things related to feelings. I thought i'm ready, maybe i was wrong, i just don't know anything now. It is not a case when all problems are solved and you say goodbye, I left in the middle of the thing, i thought i can handle it. Her schedule, my schedule, i don't have a car which makes it hard to get to the place and a lot of other things got in the way.
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Feb 18, 2009, 08:23 AM
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It sounds like it is an inconvenience to get to T and fit it in the schedule - but if it is going to help wouldn't it be worth the trouble? I'm sure it is hard for you that your T is away for so long......I hope you will give it another try when she returns. Or at least have a few sessions so you can wrap up the things you were in the middle of and maybe even figure out a plan for going forward..... Take care ((((((((((((3velniai))))))))))))))))) 
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Feb 18, 2009, 02:06 PM
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#6
Feb 18, 2009, 02:16 PM
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Can you get a different T with later hours and who doesn't leave as often?
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#7
Feb 18, 2009, 02:24 PM
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Ummm, yes you have a right to complain if you are hurting! We will listen. I agree with Sannah. It sounds like you still need therapy but you should find someone who can offer you are more convenient schedule that doesn't interfere with your job. Also--maybe one who doesn't travel so much?
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Feb 18, 2009, 02:26 PM
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Not being able to accommodate schedules when we want therapy sucks!
I do hope you don't quit. At least go in once more, and explain your reasons for quitting and perhaps T can refer you to someone else that can better accommodate your schedule (like maybe an appt on a Saturday, or after 5pm)?
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Feb 18, 2009, 02:40 PM
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I contacted one T. I like her website and her CV is impressive and I don't get scared when I look at her picture, lol. I also found some good comments about her in a local girls forum. But... she is away for a month. I'm lucky, ain't I
 I'll just wait and see, and if I still want any therapy after a month (which is not likely), I will email her again.
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#10
Feb 18, 2009, 11:33 PM
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oh no eyebally... im sorry. Pain over T is terrible... and you can complain as much as you need to. If things are tough because of scheduling and such, is there any way you can do some sessions by phone?
i hope the new T works out... our attachment and resulting pain isn't trivial or silly. Not one bit. I had to leave my first T due to a cap regulation at the university. It doesnt feel good at all.
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