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Old Mar 05, 2009, 08:49 AM
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Rapunzal, I'm struck by the time between sessions. I'm not sure if this is a money issue or what, but its not surprising you experience the feelings you explained here, but I think more regular therapy would help you here....I think everyone here can ID with what you are feeling and yes email tends to ignite our inner fears because we have no facial expressions to reasure us...much like as children we survived on observingn our caregivers facial expressions to see if that moment we were ok or not, so its no wonder you feel the way you have.
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Old Mar 05, 2009, 10:19 AM
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I told T about the rejection sensitivity and transference connection.

T says that I shut down when she expects me to actually do something about a problem,

it boils down to that I am afraid to see myself for who I really am, or to let anyone else see the real me, or to actually be real. So I keep hiding and avoiding. And that the solution is to stop hiding and avoiding, and face the fear.

I forgot the not deserving help because I'm not allowed to have problems angle.

I guess I did ok this time. Only one major shutdown.
Progress!!!!!! Keep working................
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Old Mar 05, 2009, 12:17 PM
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Do you ever wonder if deep down you DO see who you really are but if you admit it even to yourselfn you would then be compelled to take action?
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