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Apr 27, 2009, 04:58 AM
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last session with T tomorrow - will find out what is going to happen after that as well - whether I am being referred on or if my funding has finished.
I am also going to ask about what is going to happen to my file - I trust T but I dont want others seeingmy file - if I have a choice that is. Also am going to ask T what she meant by I have to be careful who I trust ...... I am going to try and be an adult and sort out as much as I can - don' t know if I can do this.... am afraid... thats the child isnt it.... Keep your fingers crossed for me - I am sure everything will be fine 
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts  its how many times you get back up!   (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture  )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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Apr 27, 2009, 05:15 AM
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good luck, sweetie
 . is your appt in the morning or afternoon? i will send calming vibes your way.also - even if funding is over, you know we can still get freebie sessions under medicare, so that shouldn't be a reason to stop seeing someone/not move on to someone new. |
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Apr 27, 2009, 05:49 AM
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I hope this session ends things on a positive note for you, and that you are able to continue sessions with someone else without much interruption.
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Apr 27, 2009, 05:54 AM
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Phoenix, sending you lots of love & luck, i'm sure soooooooooo many people will be thinking of you  , your such a sweetheart  , you deserve to be happy....
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Apr 27, 2009, 06:06 AM
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I am definitely keeping my fingers crossed for you!!! Please update when you can.
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Don't follow the path that lies before you. Instead, veer from the path - and leave a trail... 
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Apr 27, 2009, 06:08 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((P7)))))))))))))))))))))))))
I am thinking of you! Write down everything you need to tell her and ask her so you know you said/asked all the things that you need to. Please let us know how it goes, okay?
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Apr 27, 2009, 07:44 AM
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((((((( phoenix7 ))))))
My fingers .. and toes.. are crossed. I hope it goes well and you sound very strong in your words. I also hope your funding has not ended and you will be able to continue with another T. If you wish to, please let us know how it goes. I'll be thinking of you!
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#8
Apr 27, 2009, 07:55 AM
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- dont know if I could afford the co-payment on medicare Deli - but will see what happens
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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Apr 27, 2009, 07:58 AM
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(((phoenix)))))))))))))))))))))) my thoughts are with you
may all go well |
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Apr 27, 2009, 10:12 AM
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I hope it goes well for you
Take Care X
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Apr 27, 2009, 02:50 PM
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Phoenix,
Hoping your last session goes well for you. I really hope she has some good advice for you. Sending you hugs for that hard morning
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Hangingon When you feel your nearing the end of your rope tie a knot and hang on !!! |
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Apr 27, 2009, 05:11 PM
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((((((p7))))))
i hope it goes better than you could even hope and you get a wonderful new t too.
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Apr 27, 2009, 10:37 PM
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fingers are solidly crossed.
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Apr 28, 2009, 03:24 AM
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how did it go, beautiful?
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Apr 28, 2009, 07:37 AM
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Im not really sure.. we didnt get to do the EMDR I have wanted to do for the last month or so..... she said for the SI i just need to use the techniques that work not to do it - hmm I would be doing that if I could - I think - dunno - confused - I think she thinks im fixed... maybe I am... maybe I just dont know it lol
 i can see another T at her practice - my funding is still good..... but now I feel like I would be wasting their time ...... shes not leaving as soon as we thought so I have managed to get another appt to get the EMDR done - but if Im fixed i shouldnt need it anyway.... I just feel really sad.... shouldnt though - Im fixed Lol
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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Apr 28, 2009, 08:54 AM
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please go easy on yourself and don't decide to just quit if you feel like you are under pressure PS I hope you can get away from judging whether "fixed" or not... I am beginning to realize that it is an invalid term, we just need different things at different times. T tells me she has her own T that she has been seeing on and off for decades, and still sees whenever something comes up and she needs reinforcements. There is nothing at all out of the ordinary about it. |
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Apr 28, 2009, 09:05 AM
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yep good news
I was/am feeling very insecure and may have taken some of her comments the wrong way.... or maybe I didnt and ..... im just making it all about me - attention seeking..... (my interpretation of somthing she said ) fixed but wanting more attention... dunno... have to think on it ....
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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Apr 28, 2009, 10:33 AM
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Hi Sweetheart, its understandable you felt/feel insecure, but your being too hard on yourself, i think "sittingatwateredge" is right, what does fixed even mean?
Its so easy to interpret something someone said in a totally different way than they meant or intended, i do it all the time, & normally takes me day's to realise its often my mind just running riot... you have a chance to carry on & see someone else, that can only bring good things, its certainly not wasting anyones time, please dont be hard on yourself, you seem to have come far, there's nothing wrong with making it about you, it's you that's important . i hope things become clearer for you
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Apr 28, 2009, 01:27 PM
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I'm glad you have another appointment
Maybe you got what she said wrong - I do that a lot. I was talking about attention seeking today with my psychologist - I've wrote an apology to her before for wasting her time. I know now she doesn't think that - the nurse does though. I think it would be the same for you, you might be thinking that, doesn't mean it's right or that she thinks that - I'm sure she doesn't think you are at all. You're being to hard on yourself It just takes time and it's different for everyone Take Care
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Apr 28, 2009, 01:43 PM
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My fingers, toes and eyes are crossed to wish you well with your last session with your T.
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Apr 28, 2009, 05:40 PM
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((((P7))))
I think your sig says it all...it isn't how many times you fall down, but how many times you pick yourself back up! The idea of being 'fixed' is such a weird one, because that would mean that you were 'broken'. Whatever happened in your life, you are perfect just the way you are. Yes, we all have issues to work on, but then again life would be awfully dull without a few challenges now and again. Great work, phoenix7!
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