Is he over with me?? Help

My husband and I married for a year now. We have a 3 months son. What happened is, before we got married I had 3 previous sexual relationships, that was before I knew him. I told him about them when we were dating, and he agreed to marry me regardless of what happened. Since we married, he always been suspicious of me,, that I might be seeing someone and he was doubting if our son is his. Anyway what happened last night is, he started asking me of my previous relationships and how I felt so on and so on, (he said we are just talking, no emotions),. It came a point where he asked me how many times I slept with the previous second boyfriend, then I couldnt remember, so he asked me, "How many times, mhh?? Many times??" I answered, "yes". He started pushing off the bed and said I should get off his bed. So I slept right on the floor. Even this morning he was angry, he left to work without saying anything to me. Am I loosing him?? Could be that it's over?? Please help, I cant live without him.

Welcome to PC....
don't worry...he's just being jealous....write a note for him that you love him darely and you wish you met him earlier than those guys...plus he got to understand that you didn't cheat on him...you didn't know him before when you had boyfriend...everybody has it...then from now on, don't tell him stories about these stuff, obviously he is not mature enough to understand that it's your past....
take care and don't be worry
with love
Marjan

If all of those times have happened in the past, and not since you've been together, then he seems to be overreacting. However, I'll give you an example of my own personal experience. My experience is very limited. I only dated one other person before my husband, however, there was a few one night stand type of deals. Then, there's my husband, who has slept with over 30 girls/women before we got together. Some of them he has as friends on MySpace, and one we went over to her apartment where her boyfriend and son was. It was very awkward and I held my tongue about it for over nine months. I can understand how your husband is, except he's taking it to much more extreme. The way I see it as that he's put his junk into so many other women. Also, because there's been so many women, he has a lot less to give to me (because it's been around so much) than I do to him.

Like Marjan said, avoid bringing anything up about the past. He can't seem to realize that it's your past, and just that. However, in my situation, the women that he's slept with still bugs me, but not nearly to the point of which it's apparently bugging your husband.

As long as he doesn't start getting physically abusive, than it just might be able to be worked out, however it's going to take some compromise on both ends.

I really wish you the best of luck.

True...when I asked my ex-bf how nay relationships he had before me and he told me 20...I got so disgusted thinking that I would be number 21 and then he will pass over me and go to another girl...well...it looks like that has happened too....and RoxanneMurphy is right thinking about him putting his junk into so many women....
based on my experience, I think it's better to not digg into past relationships and not talk about them....I used to be naive and tell guys about my past relationships, but now I know I don't have too...past is in past....they can judge you over that, same as I judge them!
So, it's better not to ask them and tell them about the past so much...

my dear...don't worry...this shall pass...your husband will get over it...try not to fuel it too much...thinking too much of it makes it worse...

take care of yourself
Marjan

I agree with all the other posts on here. What happened in the past stays in the past. I've been stupid enough to ask my bf some questions in the past, and I get upset about it. I get mad because he goes back and lives like he is still in the moment. I then get pissed. Then he blames it on me saying you shouldn't have asked. When he ask me about my past I don't go to much into it because I think that he might get upset like your husband has done with you. If he brings it up again just say the past is the past, and we should just leave it in the past.

I would just like to add that I also would have a problem with a situation like this. Roxanne I don't know how you did this for so long. That would be a very uncomfortable situation. I hope that he still isn't like this.